Went to Wally world and saw a girl in a dress. Feel like I did a pretty good approach and have a date loosely scheduled for later tonight. Though it's based on what her baby daddy does I felt like there was a good chance for it working out. Though I said I'd call her later once she got things figured out so we'll see
The Approach:
She was in the self-checkout isle with workers around her looking rather displeased. I commented about it and when she was leaving just said to me have a good day as I was self-checking out. I mentioned it'd be a better day if I knew her name but I didn't think of it quick enough and she didn't hear me.
Decided that I wasn't going to let that one go so I rushed my checkout and walked around outside for like 2 minutes before I spotted her putting her cart up. Got to her jeep just in the nick of time saying that I'd have a much better day if I knew her name
Talked a bit, noticed that her body language was open pretty fast for me (rapport continuum for future me reading this) so I made it a point to move closer to her. Rubbed her arm on a few high points of the conversation. When she mentioned that she didn't have much but cleaning to do later I talked about how she should put her number in my phone so we can figure something out for later today. She made a comment while I was unlocking my phone about how I was the third guy to hit on her in Walmart and I replied (and I'm kinda proud of this one lol): well you know what they say, third time's the charm, now put it in for me *hands her my phone*
Asked her if she likes tea to begin my ask-out routine:
No I prefer coffee --> which threw me off a bit of my routine but I managed to not miss a beat and adjust
Okay then I'll get a tea and you can get a coffee when we meet up later
I don't really want a coffee
But the way she said this felt like she was kind of teasing me so I kept going
Okay then miss feisty you can get a water then (hard to explain but in a pretend annoyed voice that's a little over the top)
She laughs, agrees and we keep talking a little bit because I felt like the interaction was a liiiiittle too fast (we're like, 3 minutes at this point). Then I lightly qualified her on what she is passionate about as well as teased her about the pose she made when I asked her about it (it was kind of adorable). Then qualified her a little bit more on her work ethic
--> basically said oh nice, that's interesting of you to be passionate about cleaning. She showed me pics, then I teased her on her pose and then went into about how most people just kinda throw shit onto their job but I think it's cool that she takes pride in her work
After like another minute of chitchat (probably around minute 8 at this point) I noticed that she turned her foot and body slightly away from me like she wanted to leave. So I told her that I'd better get going but before I leave I gave her the game plan. I was going to go home, text her, and then she was going to text me about her schedule. Then hugged her and sent her on her way.
Er, I guess technically I went on my way because I was parked clear across the parking lot lol
She mentioned that her schedule depends on what her baby daddy does in her reply so I told her that I'd call her later tonight to give her some time
@ulrich
Trying my best to get in a better habit of detailing out the approach. I'm admittedly bad at that lol
EDIT AGAIN: oh, and one other thing I did well was when I brought up the pose to tease her on regarding her stance in the self-checkout area, she mentioned how there was an issue with the machine and one of the workers was giving her crap about it apparently. I feel like a did a good job of getting on her side, so like we were a team against walmart. Made some jokes about how oh yeah, that 5 dollar mistake is gonna break a trillion dollar company, they can't be too careful. She enjoyed it