Writing field reports is how you get better. If you're not interested in writing them, it means you're not interested putting in the work to get better.
200 approaches and no results is not normal. You are doing SOMETHING wrong, and it might be an easier fix than you think.
If I or another experienced member here were to meet you in person, we would be able to diagnose it pretty quickly. Since that's not possible, field reports is the next best thing.
This is like a doctor trying to diagnose a patient knowing nothing about them, basically.
Chances are I’ve been doing Daygame longer than you, given that I’ve started in 2009. So one thing I don’t lack is experience, after thousands of approaches.
I wrote in my original thread that I used to get much better results (ie lays) back in the day a decade ago. Since the advent of dating apps these results fell off a cliff. That’s one thing. There were some other guys I met in Daygame who also reported exact same thing: their success went down in recent years. I also wrote I consistently get better results in other cities and countries. This was the case 15 years ago, and is the case now.
The second thing is : what’s a result to you? A first date? A lay? A phone number? And what level of investment on any particular woman are you willing to commit to , in order to achieve this result? Are you willing to take bullshit instagram contacts and play the waiting game? I am not.
Are your approaches bold and sexual, or at least with a strong connation of "seeding" an intimate encounter in near future (e.g. do you propose a drink at your place when you meet them in daygame?) I pitch for this majority of the time.
Are you willing to come on a date with a woman when it seems she was a bit lukewarm about you previously? I’m not.
Are you willing to come on a date with a woman where a priori it’s far from clear if she’s definitely open to fucking you on that date? I’m very, very reluctant.
Do you have easy logistics that allow you to pull women to your place easily? I don’t. I can’t even invite them to mine. This leaves their place or a hotel as the only option.
Due to all these reasons, I had to reduce my approaches to a basic , minimalist strategy that aims to filter out chicks who are super down to get down and dirty on the first date, or even on “insta date” so to speak.
The only result that matters to me is dick in pussy (or any other of her orifices). I don’t count numbers or dates or make outs as results. And I’m not very interested in setting up dates in neutral “locations", unless I am really into her and she is into me. I had enough of my time wasted and dates with women who were there just for the experience but were not interested in fucking me back in my younger days.
