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3/13/2024 Wednesday
Daygame Focus:
- Didn’t really have a focus unfortunately.
What’d I do before heading out
Nothing. Just tidied up the place and finished up with work. Did not have any ritualsHow’d it Go
Girl 1: blowoutGirl 2: Asian white jacket, black yoga pants was absolutely smash, but got blown out as well
Girl 3: Asian with blonde highlights, brown jacket, black pants and stuff, she was walking in my direction so I doubled back and opened her when she passed. Responded well to the open but seemed a little hesitant to give me her name while taking my hand and then she was about to walk off bc she told me she was going to a class but she was fine with walking and talking. she seemed to get a little stimulated when I talked about traveling and how traveling with friends can lead to you guys having a deeper connection. I think here I should’ve just used it to dive deeper on her trips with friends. I should’ve just asked her if she has some friends who she loves traveling with or would love to visit. Fuck this would’ve been an easy transition into talking about the connections you make while traveling, can easily go into sexual topics here fuuuck. Instead, like a robot, I contrasted it with talking about how traveling by yourself is a vibe as well because you have the freedom to do whatever you want blah blah blah. Could’ve taken either of these topics in a more sexual direction but the rust is steadily coming off. long story short, I eventually felt like I was walking with her for too long and suggested we get a coffee some other time but she said she was in a relationship (odd phrasing there but ok)
Girl 4: Technically I forget whether she was the 4th or the 5th but who cares. Brunette. I noticed her give an ioi and while her booty wasn’t quite up to my taste I went for it anyway. She stopped, responded well but then said she was meeting friends and didnt want to walk with.
Girl 5: Asian girl, white nail polish, stopped her but Kvothe noted that I was a little too slow on the stop which made it come across as more premeditated. Opened her with a cold read and she removes her headphones and gives me her full attention it hit very well I realized in hindsight. Another thing Kvothe reminded me was to move her since she wasn’t super invested. I asked her what she likes to do for fun when she wants to unwind and she said drink coffee and I didn’t do enough with it I think. I asked her if she enjoys more the environment surrounding the coffee or the different varieties of coffee itself. I related a little bit about how I like tea but it wasn’t really sticking. Also talking a little about myself to see if she would use any of it as bait to start asking me questions. But no. She also seemed to have the logistics available for an instant date but I felt she wouldn’t be down if I asked for it so I just took a number and was surprised she said yes. dumb. The number didn’t respond and it was a pretty mild interaction all things considered.
Girl 6: Stopped and had a locked n’ loaded cold read for her which wasn’t very on point all things considered. I felt like I could’ve come up with a better, more authentic one if I had just trusted my self in the moment. She was like “hmm not really” and a little bit puzzled but not in a bad way per se. Her energy was not unreceptive but I was in “lemme eject” mode instead of “let me push this to the very end”. not good at all so I just let her go off instead of continuing with a reality pace or a stack forward to something else like a question.
Thoughts / Observations
Okay so I’m starting to get back into the swing of things, kind of like my new york jaunt in the summer. BIG difference here being I’m actually stopping girls instead of getting stuck in the “walking and talking” which I always hated because it’s so hard to build much of a vibe with.Sticking Point: Stopping them (still a work in progress but at least it isn't horrible anymore) Test out: Projecting the energy of “shes a lover who is in town for a surprise visit”
Sticking Point: Getting the girl to stay after I open and have her stopped. Test out: Lots of things to test here (leaning back, body positioning, the vibe I project) but I will focus on just mirroring her body language and projecting passion
Sticking Point: Having the conversations be more substantive. Test out: When you start running your mouth and you can tell she lights up at a particular thing, make sure to ask her about it and delve into it further.
What I did well:
- If it was a girl I was very much into, I went after her, zero hesitation.
- Besides the first two girls, I stopped all the sets
- Hook rate wasn’t bad
What I could've done better:
- Still need to undo some conversational rust but it should be very doable within a few days if I focus on it. (ie riffing and stuff)
- Could be more expressive with my gestures
- Once I’m sure the stopping has been taken care of, the next order of business will be on getting girls to stay there and having consistent hooks