Skippy's Daygame Journal

[Skippy]

3/14/2024 Thursday Daygame Focus:​

• Stop her while projecting energy of lover in town for a surprise visit
• Project passion and warmth while continuing
• Notice what causes her to light up and delve into that more conversationally

What’d I do before heading out​

I did some body stretching.

How’d it Go​

Girl 1: banging hot booty but when I got closer realized she was much older. I realized I didn’t get fully in front of her either and she didn’t stop

Girl 2: got in front of her but she motioned she was on a call or something

Girl 3: Asian girl with a nice body and big nose but she was walking so fast. She responded well to the open but didn’t stop and said she was walking fast because she was running late. Not sure what to do there

Girl 4: Stopped her but she was about to walk off. Did a cold read but she was half walking off half staying there.

Girl 5: Hot tanned vietnamese girl. She stopped and hooked a little bit but she turned out to be married.

Girl 6: brunette. glasses. wearing black. didn’t stop and walked off.

Girl 7: This was an IOI that kvothe pointed out. Tall brunette with a nice butt. Man the convo was dry af. I dunno. We were talking about where we were from and stuff. I didn’t make it man to woman at all or go into any SOT’s. I need to start recording sets. But I think I started off asking if she was a new yorker and building off from there. Actually just realized this isn’t a great route because it’s a simple yes or no question. But totally forgot the vibe goals that I had for the outing. Kvothe mentioned I should’ve moved her because it was a long conversation.

Girl 8: Walking way too fast. didn’t stop

Girl 9: Redhead. didn’t stop

Girl 10: Hot brunette, stopped her and she responded well but then said she had to get going and turns out she was married.

Girl 11: Redhead with a big fat booty. I almost didn’t open her because she was walking past me. I didn’t quite stop her, but she was still receptive I could tell. Anyway she was off getting lit with her friends. Got a phone number and I will text her tomorrow morning. But this one again the conversation felt very platonic even though she was receptive.

Thoughts / Observations​

Did not really do any of the things I said I was gonna focus on this outing

So I only stopped like 3-4 out of the 11 girls I opened. I think the issue is I was hesitating to properly get in front of them. And once I get them stopped I should move them eventually as Kvothe reminded me.

Also I just realized I need to pick a main sticking point to work on and have the other SP’s be sort of as side sticking points. Since the main one is the one that is your bottleneck to unlocking the other transition phases. Take stopping for example. If I just open enough girls in a day some will stop, and some will hook. that part is pretty common. But something like dates and instant dates and having charged interactions where it feels like the vibe is absolutely electric…Those don’t yet happen everyday. So that is what should really be my focus. And the point of working on 3 things at once is so that you can improve your odds of reaching your main sticking point. So when I think of sticking points, I should be thinking of them in terms of what’s the most important one etc… instead of what order in the interaction they’re happening.

Sticking point: Interactions are platonic after the hook
Test out:

1. If you feel it’s stale, bring on a more flirty and playful vibe with her and imagine she’s a new lover. Start looking at her like it. Run proper SECT gunwitch style
2. Think about the emotionally stimulating aspects and start going into SOT’s
3. Sexualized compliments
4. Go in your head and find something nonplatonic and ask her about it (easy is to ask her about the dating or what color are your eyes etc…)

Sticking Point: Lots of girls not stopping
Test out: Really getting in front of her and be intentful about it. Like you’re a man and you expect her to stop. It’s the most natural thing in the world

OH and no more questions that just have a yes or no answer. Instead just turn them into statements. or maybe just cut them out altogether.

What I did well:​

1. Opening the redhead on my way back home, even though I felt it wasn’t ideal. I also thought maybe it was an ioi so theres that.
2. I got lots of practice today
3. I approached the Vietnamese girl even though I had passed by and thought it wasn’t viable.

What I could've done better:​

1. Put yourself into a flirty and playful headspace throughout the entire interaction and always be thinking of ways to escalate the vibe. You just wrote a list of 4 things. If you need to, you can even go through past interactions and think about what you’d do to escalate the vibe. This should probably be a big focus for the week.
2. Make it a point to get in front of all the girls you open and do it intentfully. See if it increases the stopping rate to something higher than 3/11
3. Squeeze the meaning out of the words you use.

 

[Marcellus]

Love this journal
That is all....

 

[Skippy]

So this past month has been really good. Finally noticing some progress. Some highlights:

• Had two instant dates and a kiss-close on one of them, which is not much, but still something I'd never done before on an instant date
• Some numbers actually responding to my texts and agreeing to the soft close(still not that frequently but it's better than the previous 5 months where literally NONE of the phone numbers responded)
• Feels like I'm consistently hitting that flow state toward the end of my outings
• Girls stop effortlessly and are smiling with a twinkle in their eyes before I even say anything.
• Lots of interactions where the girls are reflecting a sexual vibe, to the point where I am forgetting half of them. And the eye contact is electric.
• Regularly getting phone numbers on outings. Regularly asking girls on instant dates
• Having this feeling of being in a dreamy sexual trance -- I feel like this is the vibe when my nighttime street interactions are on fire. This is the main feeling I want to meditate on

A lot of the numbers are still duds but the changes I'm making are already extremely promising. I would attribute this to a lot of stuff but mainly

• Showing intent both verbally and nonverbally in my interactions. In the past, I think my interactions were completely devoid of it. Now, I make it front and center. Speaking to her with intent, looking at her with intent etc...
• Sexualizing and verbally escalating more than before. IE making it more man-to-woman, taking more risks here and being more polarizing.
• Being obsessive about Sticking Point Analysis(SPA) (first introduced by Captain Jack). I added some components to make SPA match my working style more. I would love to elaborate on this after a few more months of progress so that I can better share. But for now, I will mention that I have been meticulously brainstorming solutions to my sticking points and implementing them and they have gradually been dissolving. Each sticking point gets a page where I log all the solutions and things I have tested out for it.
• NoFap probably deserves a mention too.

All of this stuff has been promising so far and I am way more deliberate with my outings. But now I will say there is a much larger volume of stuff to process so I will have to spend more time writing. Stay tuned for more!

 

[AspiringStoic]

@Skippy

This is a great read. Inspiring journal. I am doing the same thing. Direct daygame so it was even more amazing to go through this journal. Please do keep updating it.

 

[Skippy]

Time for another update.

It's been crazy in terms of results these past two weeks. Had 3 instant dates, and Saturday I spent the morning with the viet virgin who slept over Friday night, then went on a date with a 21yo Chinese virgin, also pulled and some light kissing and dry humping, and then had another date in the evening with a green-eyed brunette also pulled but couldn't escalate much on her.

I feel like the main change I made this month was just 'be yourself' and 'have fun' in the interactions.... I wish I could elaborate more, but just keeping things playful and leaning into it...but doing it ORGANICALLY I think is the biggest difference, rather than trying to follow some structure.

I'm so confused... I spent a week incorporating qualifying, having some standard teases based off of her responses, making it a point to always move the girl, and I was using stuff like 'bait hook reel release' to work in regular qualification, had some standard teases and man to woman statements if I couldn't think of anything etc... NONE of that stuff really made a difference. Sure maybe the girl got spiked but I don't think I actually got any results from it.

It was only when I said and did things organically that I noticed the interactions turn out better. So in short, canned lines and structure didn't really do anything for me. Spontaneous, playful, fun interactions were better on average. But for sure structure is important and crucial so what gives??

Maybe practicing all the routines and lines helped with being able to come up with organic content. But still seems curious because the 'routines' and 'lines' were things I had come up with organically before, they just didn't necessarily have the same effect on subsequent occasions...

On pulling I have a logistical plan that works really well as shown by the last 3 dates.

On dates getting close, and touching the girl's hands every now and then and when we walk telling her to take my arm has worked decently for feeling like there's more of a vibe, and combined with my date logistics set up, usually means pulls...

I remember back in 2019 when I was really hitting my stride and going on some dates and stuff before covid. I was bringing a similar energy, like just making the interactions more fun. But now it's much stronger.

I have no idea how to find the right dosage of being analytical in my approach to learning game...Case in point during the beginning of Jan I was deep in hustle mode, writing down sticking points and brainstorming solutions to crack them, and in the past I've been sometimes extremely dedicated about writing field reports (I mean just take a look at the past 19 pages). But oddly enough the times I had the most growth and results were when I wasn't religiously field reporting or journaling.

Even my results were usually best when I'm not thinking about busting sticking points and just 'being' rather than 'doing'.

But at the same time I know that some level of method to this is vital for continued growth. And of course field reports are valuable... in theory... so I am just trying to make sense of it all. And planning out how I would run the dates did make a difference so there's that.

Some new challenges​

Time management is even more important. I noticed that I just get so much better results when I'm doing higher volume. Even my 'ratios' improve. And with more results come added challenges like sleeping at a reasonable hour etc... On Friday night I slept at 5am and had poor sleep quality on subsequent nights, drinking a little on dates too...

I was just a zombie for the past week and my productivity in all avenues suffered. And being exhausted throughout the whole day means you're sluggish getting ready for bed and end up sleeping late again.

So in a nutshell:

• Crazy interactions, or dates mean you're up later at night
• sleeping in then cuts into the deep work hours you have and also makes you just overall sluggish throughout the day
• 4-5 days of no approaching after a big success...really it should be the opposite...I should be hitting the field harder
• Feels like I have to keep my laptop unlocked so that if I want to pull a girl off an instant date to watch a movie it's a viable possibility. I don't know what to do about this...but what it means is I spend time on my laptop later at night
• leaving the house around 6ish and finishing dinner rather late.

What I'm thinking as solutions:

• I feel like all of these are just caused by a lack of sleep, to be honest.
• Reinstate a 10pm block for my laptop for weekdays. If I have to pull and a TV show is the only thing I can think of, just wait till the girl is back at your place and lie and say you forgot the laptop was blocked... and switch to doing something else with her instead, like listening to music. Usually if it's a weekday pulling with a tv show doesn't even make sense cause the girl will give some objection like "I gotta wake up early" AND where I go it actually makes more sense to try and pull to her place.
• Don't unblock your phone after 10pm unless it's an actual emergency.
• Regarding learning...will need to think about this some more. I was going to write this as "learning more methodically" but realized that was walking into the exact problem that I was trying to solve.