Sat 19 November, Night Game, Club
Super late entry... have just been caught up with life and all, but kept a rough draft of the night...
will have to edit a bit later...
Was out for a natural friends birthday and this occured after our bar talk and catch up with our group
opened through talking with an old friend from uni after I saw her in the club near the smoking area
said her name and took her a sec to Id that I wasn't some rando, so I talked to her for a bit and was introduced to HB and give the handclasp (compliance)
before her other friend came over to talk to her...
they had some drama so I used the opportunity to move next to her friend and talk...
usual country cold read
"where are you from, you have like the European look"
I get that a lot...
turns out she's Russian and blonde and has a... big personality
ask if she knows any Russian and see if she can teach
I use my countries game and she guesses when I'm from second try (hooked here)
dd into travel wishes on where she wants to go
keep on closing the distance and using the noise as an excuse to whisper (SECT)
say she can buy me a drink when her job comes up
innocence comes up (use this opportunity to enhance my eye contact and move closer) pretty sure somehow through her glasses,
say it's usually the girls who look innocent who aren't
she says I look innocent, like I wouldn't hurt anyone...
say it depends on who you ask
calls it an interesting answer
say I usually get the dangerous vibe
resistance from hell (wildcard)
fat friend comes in and cockblocks says she has to find her friend was pissed off that she was left earlier... doesn't trust me or anyone, says I have a sketchy vibe.
use this to prove my earlier frame the polarity!
get my friend from earlier to say I'm trustworthy then get HB to say the same (social frame)
still encounter resistance, something about a military family
connect a bit on the military part and somehow get to city nightlife am talking to this HB about the city and how I don't club much she relates and says she only heads out every so often
we talk about the city and fantasy...
mentioned this bar themed after a fantasy
fucked up my counter to friend
had the girl wanting to stay with me and telling her friend to find her friend by herself eventually she says I'll go with them to find the friend and get dragged along...
(potential for pull opportunity here, should have taken it...)
eventually we end up back at the spot we were talking at later, again get resistance
got whole untrustworthy gig again, have vague memory of offering my socials and workplace instead of pacing and leading like I should have.
pretty sure this lies under supplication ):
(not my greatest moment, but hey persistence...)
at this point the girl says she'll got with her after I made my promise to bring her there.
(should have held frame, she said she wanted to stay before)
think I ended up losing frame during this point but manage to beat out the resistance enough with her friend and get her to admit she likes me and to continue repeating it and that I should come to club X with them
think I probably lost frame was when i said, I would bring HB to club X later after we talked.
I don't go with them because I'm at this venue for a friend's celebration and the fact that club X is shit
HB and her friend leave for club x
HB says she'll just drink while her friend dances...
I say I can't come and says she wasn't expecting me to
before she leaves I say we should grab coffee sometime and grab the number, my digits, call from her phone routine
tell her I might swing by club X and to text me when she leaves or comes back here
she'll all smiles and all and later gets back to me at around 2 when she left
didn't get it till later cause phone was on silent.
HB- Cape, Two Set
knew the girl from years back but noticed a strong AI stare and I think she broke down...
we (natural friend/ wing and other friend) end up sitting next them to engage this old guy, he isn't really the talking type.
so instead me and natural end up talking with the two set and get introduced
again handclasp on both (compliance)
use counties cold read again, full Aus, then get her to play countries game (hook)
while I'm hooking and she's leaned in a bit, my wing manages to swing behind her to talk with her friend
lots of whispers and leans, strong eye contact and push in close to keep the tension up, she keeps leaning in to hear what I say...
transitioning using SOT on travel and on to adventure and getting her to prove that she's this adventurous person...
keep on closing the distance
Wildcard (lights turn on)
and then the lights turn on... the mood changes instantly and she's out of the trance I have to move away my proximity.
I am out of my head as well, really throws me off so I make same mistakes as Set 1 on Thursday.
She hovers for a bit and my friend pushes me in, he knows I was going well (thinks my end game is all that is lacking)
due to being thrown off I don't really know where to start so I botch my move with HB, conversational leading stalls out, rerun some of the adventure topics instead of pushing forward and am in my head too much...
eventually I disengage after she showing signs of disinterest in convo and talk to rando next to me and her friend
what I should have done was hit on dancing friend but no, my wing had already distracted the other girl, dude basically talked me up the whole night, said he almost forgot to run game...
apparently the girl is a player, said I probs dodged a bullet, and gave me praise for confidence and all.
alas, more practice with this gig at least
and am planning to implement whispers a lot more as well, easy to get proximity and establish a secret vibe and utilise the voice fundamental better...