Interesting discussion here, and I wish to indicate what seems to be a problem that I can't quite wrap my head about.
What if there is a significant incompatibility between hot girls and yourself?
For instance when I lived in San Diego, and I'm sure you can testify, 90% of the hot girls in the city were sorority girls at the local party college. Now I tried a lot with them and couldn't succeed, but looking back I probably wouldn't even have enjoyed dating them too much, besides the sex, since the fratboy lifestyle itself doesn't appeal to me.
I very occasionally got with hot girls, but they were very much different in personality. I tend to get along well with calmer more introverted and nerdier girls. Those are the ones I feel like I enjoy their company the most and we connect the most in terms of values and interests.
Where I am now, the hottest girls are still problematic, but again, in east-central Europe, the hottest tend to be princess narcissist types obsessed with status symbols and so on, and often date rich providers in sexless relationships, or dangerous but successful mafioso types, or narcissistic businessmen who themselves are obsessed with meaningless status symbols, it seems.
I wouldn't really get along with such girls either.
The two guys I know most successful were also both quite different from me, a narcissistic highly extroverted entrepreneur, and one guy who was very silly fun and goofy. They both were very successful, and the second was just here a short time, and the first said he dated a large number of unpleasant girls until finding one that actually is hot and has a pleasant personality.
So on the one hand I'm very far away from the two types of guys who are successful. But to even construct some fake persona so as to emulate one of them wouldn't be so worthwhile since most girls I'd get would be very problematic.
There are of course some pretty and calm and nice students, but they are very rare that they are attractive, so it's just uncommon I even come across a girl who is at the same time attractive and compatible. And from what I've seen they generally date tall pretty boys who are the most popular in their local university circle, who I also don't resemble.
Maybe the "mafioso" type is the closest I can be too, but I would definitely need to add edge to my personality, and anyway I think it would also scare off the actually nice sweet girls and just appeal to the entitled bitchy ones.
I had one coach who presented an overall strategy that seemed to make sense:
-find out quickly what kind of girl she is
-in the rare case she is very attractive but is potentially compatible do the "standard" game
-otherwise if she is very hot but of this problematic type, play a hardcore lover mode of actually being different and refreshing from what she's used to and she could just be horny, knowing that she would obviously disqualify if one tries a more standard approach which leaves open the possibility of dating
with the expectation that every now and again one gets lucky to get a hot mltr that meshes well, but otherwise if she's hot then just go for fast redlining escalation and occasionally banging them once or twice, and then otherwise date casually pleasant but just "cute" or "average" girls
It seems like it makes sense. In SD itself, I had a wing who could hardly get laid trying to talk to the hot girls on the party school campus, but when he tried to get SDLs with the hot sorority girls on vacation hanging out at the beach, he was very successful, although of course those were mostly ONSs.
