Have you ever dated a girl who was on SA while she was seeing a sugar daddy at the same time?
I have definitely banged college girls who were getting paid $500 to have a 2 hour lunch/dinner with F500 execs in their late 50-60s. Often they got paid in AmEx gift cards, and they'd just bounce home at the end of the meal - they were into guys 15-20 years older not 40 years+. I've also told girls I've banged they should be on there if they're having trouble paying the rent. I'd say at least 3 of the runway models I've dated have been on there at some point.
This one girl I had started seeing had the best pair of tits I'd ever seen in my life. She eventually disappeared to another city, I think with an SD. My buddy's very, very hot girlfriend was on there to pay her rent, she definitely wasn't sleeping with anyone else while they were dating, but after they broke up probably a different story.
A Venn diagram of SA girls would be fascinating: You have high-value women on there who are just using it as a dating hack like hi-value men do. You have college girls that want to meet or date older, successful men. You have hot girls that will meet and sleep with a guy for free, but also hope they get given gifts/cash -- but without asking for it. You have 'soft escorts' on there who will be in a fwb/dating relationship in order to get their rent paid who do ask for those things. And you have regular escorts, of course, to be avoided at all costs.
My game was always the same with any girl who told me she was on SA, I would be the older, successful alpha she could bang and often [but not always] also get to go to great dinners, museums, casinos, fun charity fundraisers with. Drinks and ubers were always on me, of course. That alone goes much further than you'd think esp for girls who do not live in the city. A $20 uber can be meaningful cost for some of them.
TBH, you'd be shocked how many of these girls will more than happy to have an experienced sexual partner that could get them off, not slut- or kink-shame, and not be clingy. I'd say 95% of them were submissives. They enjoyed being told what to do, where to go, what to wear, how to bang. 'Amused mastery,' right? Some of them were also sexually inexperienced which was a surprise at first, very curious about bdsm. And most of these girls would have a very hard time ever thinking about asking to be paid for sex.
It was a real step forward for me when I understood all these girls were the same: SA, OF, IG, Tinder. It's the same girls, the same behaviors [in their Venn intersection], even if they're not on every platform. Just like there are strippers on IG and Snap and Tinder you can meet at their club, they're gonna act the same when they meet you for a drink no matter how you met.