Why No Fap Doesn't Work

terminator92

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I disagree a little bit here. NoFap is necessary to reduce or eliminate porn induced ED. This may not produce enough motivation to approach or eliminate AA, but it will improve your sex life. It’s hard to sexually prize yourself with a limp dick without being self delusional. Confidently knowing that once you and her are getting it on, she will have a great time - this knowledge can aid you in your approaches. If you have a limp porn induced ED dick, great mental gymnastics is required in order to believe she’ll have a good time.

Cutting porn and fapping has improved my focus while sarging and my sex life. It should not be treated as a trivial health improvement. Also, different men have different sex drives. This must be considered.

Anyone who has grown up with porn should absolutely go nofap. It’s good for your health, like exercise and eating your vegetables.

I definitely agree that nofap will not solve AA, but it can help for sure; it absolutely will not make your AA worse.
Glad you wrote this. I agree a 100 percent. I think many of the older guys, who had sexual experiences before they started fapping to porn have a hard time wrapping their head around how a guy can be more into porn than real girls. Porn induced ED is real as fuck and the younger guys especially now have to go no Fap.
 

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terminator92

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Yup agree a 100 percent. I was referring to just the aspect of porn addiction. A guy who starts wanking to porn at age 9 and only gets with a girl for the first time at age 21 will have fucked up his brain a lot more than a guy who started banging girls at 15 and only started wanking to porn at 20.
 

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lol I started choking the bishop at age 10.

Though I started "feeling excited" from as early as age 6, when I felt a blonde blue-eyed American girl called Caroline's breasts during reading time at school (we would sit in the corner of the classroom on a rug and the teacher would read to us. I slid my hand under her blouse while the teacher sat there on a chair reading to the class without getting noticed. Looking back that was a pretty ballsy move. Totally spontaneous).

I also "felt excited" pre-age 10 when I accidentally saw a sex scene in a movie one afternoon when returning from the beach during the summer holidays.

During my teenage years, I masturbated like a maniac. I didn't watch a lot of porn though. Never liked porn very much. I liked looking at photos of sexy naked girls/women better.

I popped my cherry aged 19.
 

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I didn't watch a lot of porn though. Never liked porn very much. I liked looking at photos of sexy naked girls/women better.
That's great. Its high speed porn that's the problem. Imagine watching all kinds of gang bangs, fetish and kinky stuff non stop and jerking off to that and then you are presented with a regular cutie and your brain is like "What!!? This is it? I am using to seeing multiple girls doing crazy stuff. This sweet cutie with a smile isn't providing anything near the kind of stimulation I am used to. This is boring". And a limp dick ensues.
 

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We need to agree just like many things, porn and fap will affect different guys in different ways... You need to see how it does affect you and be honest about it....

For me for example porn and fapping just increase my motivation, it does affect me at points in being present to the moment in sex, but it also could be that i have been with a high number of women... But if i am going to go out or have a date, obviously i don't fap pre-activity or have sex with a girl pre activity for obvious reasons.

A lot of ed issues comes to problems with anxiety in many dudes or hormonal issues, they blame it on porn.... But you just need to be honest with yourself and see how does it affect you personally....
 

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I'm on nofap day 5...I'm going to continue it until 16 December.. It was borne out of competition because I did perform as well as I should have done. I hate losing out for the wrong reasons.

For me nofap : increases entitlement with chicks, killer or sensual eye contact, better state control, more energy/explosiveness this goes into convo's as well. It is is basically like a phone being on battery saving mode or on full power. Nofap is full power.
 
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