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  1. smoothoperator

    FIRST SEDUCTION✅ AND BEHAVIOUR QUESTION

    Hey guys what up, I just did my first seduction✅ Story: I met the girl in the club, exchanged contacts, met up later with her again at my place. She was feeling unwell so she left. Met her in the club yesterday again. Pulled her home. Had a great time. Now: This is all amazing, but I was...
  2. smoothoperator

    Sooo.. Just touch her??

    Whats Up? For me, I worked a shit ton on my nightgame, especially dancefloor game. How fun! Here a short recap on what I worked on, maybe not one hundred percent accurate. Generally one point per club visit; 1. Fundamentals (Eye Contact, Posture,...) 2. Vibe (Outcome independence, having fun...
  3. smoothoperator

    Housemate behaves like an b****

    Hey guys what's up, I am currently working on my basics and cold approach. I definitely got a lot smoother, since with girls I already was with before I can just feel the vibe not being awkward anymore. In retrospective I think they let me hit anyways me being this not so smooth dude, but now...
  4. smoothoperator

    A chick a day keeps the...

    ..doc away.. or some like this :D. Anyways hey Guys. I will start cold Approaching at least a chick a day now too. But, I have a few questions that came to mind.. So I decided to start cold Approaching and browsed the beginner threads and forums, but it doesn't seem like there's one straight...
  5. smoothoperator

    Housemate just creeps me out

    Hey everyone it's a pleasure to meet you;). Before you jump to fast conclusions please read the full text. I live in a apartment with 6 people 3 girls and 3 guys. Recently our last roommate moved out and a new girl came. To be fair she is really hot. We have no influence on who gets the new...
  6. S

    How effective is feigning nerves to embolden a girl with anxiety?

    I noticed this can be effective in some ways and not in others. Is there a net benefit to this method or am I killing my elusiveness?
  7. Aureliusdk

    I´m attractive, 6´3, but am i crazy for not doing cold approach? Let´s find out (Journal, Denmark)

    After reading chase´s article about cold approach and meeting my first and only girlfriend through that, i am certain that´s the way i should go. Do you guys have any tips on how to start? I could start in the gym i am working at, but the thing in Scandinavia is that people don´t talk to About...
  8. M

    Resident Day game wingman in Bay Area(SF, Oakland and Berkeley)

    Hi, my name's Tom, I'm 24, and I just moved to the East Bay last week. Background: I'm in a unique situation. I am bisexual, so I have a ton of experience with men but hardly any with women. I have done a total of 3 cold approaches in my life(all women). I have basic social skills and some of...
  9. Aussiedude

    Significant emotional whiplash after each cold approach - Bit of guidance/opinions would be great

    Hi All, So I'm a beginner at cold approach and probably made about 50 cold approaches in total. Each week I usually do about 1 - 5 approaches. But the biggest issue for me, is that after each approach. I get what I call emotional whiplash, in the following hours and even days. In the form of...
  10. TwoNameGame

    University Cold Approach Advice?

    I've lurked on here for a while now and read that the general consensus is: social circle game is king. However, I go to a commuter university with well over 30,000 students in SoCal, USA. Social Circles are too loose here, it seems, and the kinds of girls I have cold approached have completely...
  11. J

    Daily Cold Approach Diary Month of October- Day 1

    whats up, First post on the forum, I'm setting a goal to go out approach at least 1 girl everyday for the month of October. my "stretch goal" is to approach 4 a day. I just quit my job and I really have no other obligations so I have no excuse not to do this. I'll post daily entries on this...
  12. Kshatrap A.V.

    A must read GC article for beginners ?

    https://www.girlschase.com/content/lower-your-standards-and-date-hotter-girls As a beginner , we can have really big egos ... regarding the chicks we want to hang out with ....which can very bad for our overall development. like I know this 19 year old guy...he is a virgin with high standards...
  13. S

    ADVICE WOULD BE APPRECIATED:Conform vs Individuality, Directing vs Following, Challenging Vs Passive.

    A bit of background. I’ve lost interest in most of my childhood hobbies, and have found another part of myself that I enjoy. I find myself transitioning from being a serious intellectual, highly theoretical person to someone who want to have fun, relax, explore and take care of their body more...
  14. Kshatrap A.V.

    "I love my hair , too" Shit test

    So , a few days ago , I was out infield and approached this hot chick and complemented on her hair ....but rather than being flattered ..she replied "I love my hair too ". Now , I didn't knew how to respond to this and She left ....even though I knew it was a shit test . Now , it's one thing...
  15. D

    help?

    Girl does not want a relationship with me, and wants to sleep with me and others too, but also wants to be friends with me, my question is, should I go on with it or not because when sleeps with others
  16. P

    Raised and living in a Pretty much fucked up conservative environment. Need help with a lot of things.

    I am from Pakistan and I was raised in a pretty strict religious and over protective environment. I first time left home alone when I was 15. Now 23. I had no close friends until 9th grade. Had zero socializing until I went to medical college. I had zero interaction with women. In school van...
  17. H

    What is the deal with online dating apps?

    I am trying both cold approaches and dating apps for sometime now, but dating apps take me nowhere. I rely more on cold appraches, but I still want to have something out of dating apps in the pursuit of getting laid. What should my profile look like? What i should write in bio if I dont have...
  18. mist

    FR Accidental Sniper Approaches

    HBEastAfrican (Last Monday) 40-50 minute interaction(?) Something about africans and having dat ass. Well I hope so because it was hard to tell with her jacket. She had a very nice shape though. What I looked like sort of. Rough draft of what I was wearing Red sweater fit (Close to this)...
  19. B

    Making a "bad" bar work?

    Hey everyone I have been experiencing this problem for a while and I wanted to see if anyone has dealt with similar situation and can help out. Basically one of my wings is dead set on only going to this one bar but I hate this bar with a passion. I have tried many times to convince him to go...
  20. mist

    Bring On The Fugly Bitches

    Hello friends! Been awhile :D. I've been kicking it in the chat and reflecting on sticking points, skill acquisition, my many failures, and fantasizing about the seducer I hope to become. The topic of this thread is asking for input on taking a "Fuck Anything That Moves" approach to flatten...
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