texting

  1. Calibration

    How can I frame a girl as a chaser when I was the one who literally approached her?

    This may be a basic question but I fail to understand. I mostly do cold approach and sometimes it's street approach where I literally run to approach her. Most of the guys on this forum seems to frame the girl as the one who is chasing. I get that it's a lot easier to game with that frame but...
  2. Calibration

    How do I move the interaction towards the date over text if the girl takes forever to reply?

    This question is not for this specific interaction but in general as well I met this super-cute chic at a park and had an elaborate conversation for over an hour. I tried insta-date and she didn't agree since she said she wanted to chill in the park and instead offered her number. I made it...
  3. Calibration

    How long is too much before a girl goes into auto-rejection if I delay replying to her text?

    I've tried different variations but this is something I've struggled with for a long time. Sometimes I get busy, sometimes I can't think of a right reply and sometimes I'm anxious to reply to a text. So, I take time to reply. Sometimes a few hours and sometimes upto 24 hrs or more. When I've...
  4. J

    Texting Ex's Friend. Goal: hangout | Issue: Bit Complicated?

    Hey, Here's the situation: Recently broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago. The girl I just texted is someone who my girl and I hungout with once. My girl introduced me to her. It went great. We all vibed. Problem is - my ex has serious health complications, so I really don't want my...
  5. Calibration

    How to build comfort over text?

    Could you give me some examples? Or point to an article please
  6. Calibration

    Should I leave this girl on read?

    I've gone through articles related to texting from @Chase but I couldn't figure if it'd be rude to leave the girl on read after sending the ice-breaker text (could we ask Chase to be any more comprehensive :P) until I send the date text or something like in my case: So, I cold-approached a girl...
  7. R

    Need help with texting a girl to set up a date.

    Hi All, So this is almost a classic. I saw this really hot girl on the beach and went to talk to her. The conversation went really well, actually a bit too well, we spoke for like 1h+ I know this is too long, but when I tried to leave she wouldn't let me lol. Then she was about to leave and...
  8. weekendwarrior

    Avoiding platonic texts?

    Hi guys, I went out with some friends earlier and met some new friends. I offered to drive my friend home and extended the offer to one of her friends (they came together) who is very hot. I talked to her throughout the night and we got on really well but we kept getting interrupted (it was a...
  9. XO!

    Insanely Useful Texting App: Do It Later

    From what I've seen, texting is the one thing that trips up just about every newcomer to this space, even those who've enjoyed a decent amount of success. The aspects of seduction that make it so enthralling - a sensual and loving gaze, a gentle touch, the nonverbal communication that underlies...
  10. mist

    Who Are Some Great Text Gamers To Model?

    TL;DR Basically What I did, What I’m doing, Why my question. I don’t particularly care what texting style they take as long as you have found it effective for you. You’re not limited to any medium. Can be a forum post, video, or a goddamn excel spreadsheet. Shoot :) Peace
  11. J

    Socializing Social circle: How would you handle this situation and escalate with the girl?

    Hi folks, I'm a gamer guy who recently got out of a long-term relationship. Ever since then, I've been having dating and flinging and just catching up on what I missed out on in my youth. When I was younger, I never really played the dating game because I was just really obsessed with games and...
  12. Darius

    Was this needy?

    Hey everyone, I'm trying to get my texting in check. I have to say, it is a *lot* harder to keep a girl's attention if she's not social circle or you haven't met her in a socially relevant circumstance (like a class for instance). So here's one example where I feel I could've gotten her on a...
  13. J

    Texting, how to keep interest for a date in 12 days?

    Met a girl online that had already liked my profile. Seems to be pretty interested, got her number and have already successfully set up a date, it's just a lot further in the future than I'm used to. I was planning for this weekend but she's got a trip she mentioned right before I asked her so...
  14. Nicko

    Calls & Texts Girls Flanking

    Hey guys! Just a quick post on my text msgs, on girls flaking to my txts . I need some help with understanding what went wrong here, hope i can apply new gain knowledge to apply to other girls. A instant date with this girl and her 8 yr old young brother lol, set a date for the next week...
  15. D

    Initiating Text

    If a girl never initiates a text but replies enthusiastically after the guy initiates contact, does it mean she is not interested or that she simply is shy and not outgoing?
  16. D

    Calls & Texts When she apologizes for forgetting to reply.

    Guys what would you respond when a girl apologizes for forgetting to reply to one of your texts provided she has been very prompt in replying to other messages. In my case the girl I was texting replies very promptly and she is a little absent minded and it is not the case that she is not...
  17. D

    Girl replies to a part of a multi part text

    Guys what can I do if a girl replies to only a part of a text when I ask her questions, do I ask her again or do ignore and move on. The question she ignored was really important to establish connection with her so what can I do
  18. B

    Tested out doing a call kinda good results

    So I got this super unsolid number from this girl (did not set up the date on the spot, she seemed like she wasn't too into me, etc) I do my standard "it was fun to chat with you" and she did respond immediately. BUTTTT I could just feel that while the response was positive It was not going to...
  19. B

    Quick number did not set up my logistics right

    Hey guys, Got a quick question on how to proceed with this number I got today. Background: It was in the day, street stop. I did my standard opener (direct) while she was walking and she stopped. She responded quite well and I started to go into standard banter/deep dive but then she cut...
  20. C

    Calls & Texts From agreeing to meet up to logistics ghost

    Hey guys! So this is a consistent problem I’ve been running into which I’m not sure if there is any solution to this but what are your guys thoughts? so majority of numbers I’m getting at the moment are from online dating. banter -> get the number I always say something along the lines of...
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