15-year-old meets seduction

[Nicko]

Prologue:
Seduction changed my life besides discovering what i have is a 'penis' in first grade. Currently 14 turning 15 in 2 months discovered game by accident on r/redpill when i was 12-13. Grew a pair of balls and decided its time to cold approach and get laid with a 4 inch asian chopstick (Yes im chinese and wears glasses lmao)

8.11.20 second time cold approaching first is in FR named Cold Approach from a 15 year old)

Venue: Chadstone js going to be my learning ground for now. it is large as fuck mall with lots high end luxury clothes, jewelery, perfume(gucci, dior, lv and ect.) shit like that and regular shops of whatever need you could possibly imagine. Large as fuck pathway to walk around 3 meteres wide)
The whole building has 4 floors. 2-3 levels depending on what clothing venues( Myer, David Jones, HnM, Uniclo and ect.) the whole building captures the whole essences of capitalism lol

(8.11.20)
Approach Anxiety is worse than the first time, this being my second i should be more calmer but seeing less pre selection from pretty girls really threw me off and made me more nervous that usual, Thoughts racing left and right 'why arent more girls attracted to me than usual' heart racing faster, my strong posture is slacking, my walking tempo is all over the past like at any second i might just trip, balls sweating, ass chafing, the strong, sexy masculine image i wish to project is weak long story short fundemtnals wack af today but i diagress however i forced my ass out to cold approach even if my vibe was fucked and i promised my self to do it the day before so its not as that bad. Didn't have the balls to open to girls who are walking by me even with possible approach invitations really need to get that shit sorted and forcing a close no matter what.

Goal: proper hooking, learn indirect approach and strategy , knock girls out of auto-pilot(employees), destroy any hesitation, stick to the 3 second approach rule.
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Venus choice: all employees in Myer and David Jones( fashion venue with clothes, make up, perfume and lots of girl employees usually posted around the entire venue and some walks around + lots of girls wondering around)
Set 1: build like white brunette, a black shirt with blue patterns and black trousers( work uniform) brown eyes, guessing in her 26 ish
Approach:saw her glances a couple times and touched her hair more than 3 times as i looked over to check her out( peripheral vision ) i approached with a can opener( bad habit when im sweating balls) and it forced her back into auto-pilot. She wasn't as warm as i hoped and got my expectation fucked which caused me to be even more nervous
Convo: i talked about how i need something for my aunty, she directed the clothes, little build attraction or rapport. After the convo couldn't branch onto her it ended i couldn't bite the close
(￣Д￣；；)
Thoughts: i could feel the sweat in my hair as i walk away from her, i was flustered because of my inability to close on her. I really need to ditch that can opener, as the convo was about to get dry i could of asked to what was nationality or guess(cold read) to build that sweet rapport and attraction.
Set 2: dyed blonde, white, nice ass, black tee, black jeans isn't much can i say about a typical hot dyed blonde .
Approach: saw her from the glance of my eye as i walk back fo set 1 post, i hovered to around her to see any approach invitations, saw 2( 1 slow hover as she looked at me, a few glances) but still being flustered from the first set i wanted more to que to increase my confidence but the girl who was already there needed her service so i dipped
Thoughts: i had clear approach invitation but i was too much of a pussy to bite the bullet.
Set 3: tall blonde about 177cm , blue jeans, white tee, black hand bag
Approach: saw her hover around me when i was checking out clothes to see if she was receptive and said fuck it and walked towards her
Convo 'hey you think this would suit my aunty' *she giggles* 'noooo' i went direct and said 'your cute, are you single' she responds im with my boyfriend. All attraction is killed on the spot and she is in auto-rejection and i try to tease her 'are you lying to me' playfully but her response was either neutral or uninterested in my tease and said 'he is sitting over' as she looked towards him . I lost this one, its pretty much gone if shes in auto rejection. I walk off in disbelief that she had a boyfriend
Then i turn around to see her walk away with a dude(gay best friend, boyfriend, fuck buddy who knows)
Thoughts: im guessing she is in auto rejection because was interested at first but when i asked if she is single she evaluated her investment for him and blew me off and looked towards her bf as she said that. Or possibly ASD was so fucking strong it made her realised she has a bf and he is near enough to see me approach and ask her out and if i got her number she would call her a slut for letting me slide in.Or a massive shit test to pretend to play aloof and see how i handle the social pressure. I guess indirect game would have helped me a lot with out saying 'u single' but stating enough interest to keep her on board 'u cute/nice dress/cool eatings ect.
Set 4: asian, green shirt dress, hour glass body, black pony tail, 165cm, weak jaw gold ear rings(her bf bought her)
Set 5: possibly indian due go dark brown pigment, nice ass, tall around 180 cm, black hair, black jeans and a black sweater with a abstract pattern
Approach): this was new to me i was hovering around their post seeing set 5 lf she was receptive enough then she was when set 4 comes along now they are hovering around each other talking and it doesn't seem they want to leave each other. She was constantly glancing at me so was the first girl I was lost for a bit and distanced my self and checked other clothes while in front of them to think what to do. I got closers pretending to be distracted me clothes and opened since they are glued together. I opened again with a can opener
Convo: i sub consciously said 'hey can you pick something sexy for my aunty' (i meant to say 'something sexy like me for my aunty') to both of them, set 4 stepped up to help me as you could guess she is in auto-pilot(providing services) im stuck in her frame as im responding to her questions. Her guard is raised, went about what clothes to gift and what not nothing about her and I forced close and her friend was some what near enough to head us talk and i wanted to keep it lowkey 'a friend of mine told me the secrets of giving but i have to whisper to you so your friend dont hear us ' she repulsively pulled her head away from me as i said that.
My body language might have been off as i was still nervous or i was not in the position of authority and confidences to pull that off. I tried to recover and explain(a nail in the coffin for frame, i know its bad but it beats coming off as a creep and getting black listed ) why i wanted to whisper
Me: i wanted to say your cute, are you single'
Her:'awwww thanks, i have a boyfriend'
( absolutely dreadful to hear)
Knowing at thjs point its game over, there isn't much i can say and i couldn't sense any attraction.
I dont remember much after that but i left after finding out the girl with her is actually a mother of 2.
Thought: i could of opened to both of them at the same time and go indirect and just talk to them regularly( hey are you a worker here? Oh nah i just wanted to say to say ' hi' to u 2 *wink* *wink*) or a simple compliment two of them on their outfit to get the ball rolling.
Set 6: ill save you the trouble nothing interesting happened same boring convo with all of them (can you a pussy named 'Nicko') auto-pilot on the spot after i asked her what is this, what is that on a post she was staying where all these random inventions were placed and i couldn't bite. Nothing struck me just by looking at her so i won't mention it

Ending thoughts: i really need to ditch these canned openers.it seems they will usually force them into auto-pilot. I need to adopt complimenting openers, situational openers, cold read openers. I forced a close out of nervousness at set 3 i should of played it cool and go indirect since stating 'are you single' forces a knee jerked response in that situation, really get the 3 second rule ingrained into my head. Kill approach anxiety completely. I realized with my can openers, is masking my AA by making it easier to open without actually opwning and all of the pressure is taken away.

 

[Beam]

Hey, we live in the same city, lol. I'm envious you've discovered and started applying this stuff so early - I can only imagine what my life would have been like if I'd done the same at 14. Keep hustling!

 

[Nicko]

Hey, we live in the same city, lol. I'm envious you've discovered this stuff so early - I can only imagine what my life would have been like if I'd found it at 14. Keep hustling!

Ohhh Shit, a fellow seducer at my city wow thats lit lmao maybe we could link up someday and slay them shorties togetherness lol , i can't really say much to stop you from being envious lol but im jealous of everyone experiences and discipline to this art form. Keep hustling too!

 

[Beam]

Yeah man! I've got some years on you but will still be in my 30s when you're in your 20s so we may be able to crush it together at some point! In the meantime, we've got this forum.

There are a quite a few seducers here - a lot are from a coaching group I joined, others are from a Whatsapp group. They mainly game in the city. Though only a fraction of these (I think I can count on one hand) get laid consistently and the ones they do lay are not top quality, girlfriend quality girls (even my coaches last year have confessed they have had trouble getting and keeping girls they actually want around, but they continue to lay tons of chicks). Very very few with world class game here I think so there are real chances to get to an elite level with enough effort especially using what's on this site (which my coaches didn't know about), and you being so young have a massive head start on everyone else.

 

[Nicko]

14.11. 20 + 15.11.20
Saturday was feeling sluggish didn't warm up at all, wasn't really in the state and forced my self out to go cold approach. vibe was fine and preselection was pretty usual not like last week where it was off. only approached 1 on that day with intent to get her number but pussied out

Today(15.11.20) was doing alot better
Woke up and decided to force my self to be in the mood to cold approach and worked out earlier then i would. I usually do it after i get back from cold approaching. Its 12pm and my dad drove me out to meet bitches(yes he knows about what im doing and shit) so lets go into it
Venue: 1st was DFO(direct factory outlet) long story short clothes outlet directly came from the factory 2nd chadstone(high end as fuck mall)

Warm up set(employee) :1 Australian, chubby blonde, name:septh, 5'5 hair in a pony tail and fainted pink, clothes don't Remember
Approach: initially didn't want to approach her cuz she was chilling in the change room and lots of fucking traffic. its very hard to build rapport, banter, tease and so on when there is lots of people going in and out. Pulled my ass over to do it after pussying out 2 times had to consciously put my self in the state and opened to her when she was doing clothes as i come out with a hoodie i end up getting.
Convo(indirect?) : i asked if this suits me, *gestering towards the clothes i have* she said it would look great, blaah blaah blaah, cold read her nationality on being greek and turns out she was Australian. Im building thr habit of introducing my self, shook her hand asked what brought her here to work(obviously money) cold read onto her on what she would spend it on. 2-3 interruptions from other customers(i knew it was going to be annoying) then i tried to think of something else but i got the hint and she asked me 'are you going to pick on of them'. Picked the hoodie i liked and went to the cashier

Thought: direct close would have probably work better since its a high traffic area since not even time for indirect game or should of closed sooner, wasnt really smooth when people kept interrupting which is understandable

Set 2(indirect? Employee) : italian, brunette long pony tail, white tee shirt, black jeans, slim thicc
Approach: lmao i got distracted with the bootleg mints right next to the register(2 registers and 1 of them was occupied and she waved me over) she was attracted already(prob preslection) she asked how was my day, blah blah, i cold read her nationality as greek turns out she itialian, teased her of looking greek and got me confused, asked me if wanted a bag(fuck carrying that shit lol) told her im stingy with money and she laughed, she said she is stingy too i went for a number close but she has a bf(fuck, it cant be mario can it ) teased her are you lying she said sorry afterwards, line was pilling aint about to deal with that shit so dipped.
Thoughts : i felt i could of bypass the 'i have a bf' by saying 'who said i was trying to be ur bf' with a smirk but got masks on or 'woah im not trying to be ur bf ur moving too fast but as friends *wink *wink) never tried gonna try it next to see how it goes.

Set 3(indirect employee) : Sri Lankan, brown, dark long hair, blue denim jacket, green tee, black short jeans. Good old school vans name: Jes 5'6
Approach: she approached me lmao( girls as employees are more likely to approach you it seems) and i ran with it, saw 2 cute asian girls(they my type) but hell with it she already hi might as well open with 'help me pick this shoe' blah blah
Convo: which shoe you think is fly af right now blah blah blah. Cold read are you a skater girl, she was laughing turns out shes not shook hands and introduced each other, teased her how she got a job in a skate shop, cold read her giving me the feel of her being introverted and somehow got a job here. Long story short here is what i found out of her: studying Comerse at Monash Uni(top notch uni in Victoria/melbourne) doing law side, want to travel, dream job to travel , introverted, not a skater lol) i lied to her going to monash as well lmao to keep up the appearance of not being 14-15 lmao when she asked me where i go uni. Further teasing is done. I said i had to go as I checked the time to close with a number close but she was already in the position to go away when i said 'im busy i need to get going' her 'oh ok it was nice talking to u' totally fucked it by not asking if she wanted to see me again and close like that. threw me off when she was already gonna leave so fast i expected her to wait a few seconds more. But closed again: after lingering in the shop to think how should i re open, i was at gun point had to go direct can't be lowkey about it when i missed it. walked up to her after she try to get a 2 year olds attention and getting rejected(ignored and turned the other direction ) opened with 'i thought you were cute what is your number' her 'oh sorry i have a bf ' teased is it serious? Its a 3 years relationship said teased again he should propose she was laughing but she wouldn't budge and i left.
Thoughts:fucked the close on the first one, went in for the second close for that second chance baby. turns out she had a bf. Which js a bummer but I think my hook is getting better, cold read the shit out of her if u got nothing to say and overall flow of the convo was smooth.

Set 4: brown haid pony tail, white and possibly greek black tee, white jeans, nice ass
Approach: saw glancing at me when i was waiting in a line(annoying as fuck cuz of covid) went in to see how receptive, i hovered real close to her by pretending to be distracted by some shoes as she was at the register. Multiple glances and all. I was being a lil bitch, knew clear signs of attraction but didn't want to open then saw 2 guys roll up, big looking guys roll up pretending to sit down and look at their phones at the seats near the entrance they really thought they were slick tryin to hit on her by looking at their phones and hope she says hi. She noticed them but she glanced back at me i knew she was probably gonna service them then that would fuck my shit up. oh nah mfs i aint letting u steal my set . Shot my shot with a canned opener(wtf me) got her ass into auto pilot salvaged a lil bit of attraction, conversation dull and she wasn't interested and should of cold read but it got too awkward for me to handle and dipped. The 2 dudes dipped hahaha nice try but they did also made pull the trigger thanks to them.

Set 5(employee) : cute korean chick gave me some what approach inv , 5'6,black pony tail and a dark floral dress
Approach: went back and forth with her jewelry station she was all alone found a bit of attraction and said fuck it.
Convo:fucked it right off the back threw her jnto auto-pilot by canned opener(i vow to not use this as im a under pressure again) 'help me find something for my aunty' and she wasn't all thar intrested verbally, very blank expression gave me a feel she was more conservative got awkward and dipped

(chadstone)
Set 6: greek, brunette braided her hair back from the front to the back of her pony tail, 5'7, name Angelica, flirty and strong frame( played a lil aloof in the end) , white tees and white jeans, nose is a lil crooked lmao
Approach:saw a unique clothing store, abstract af got fucking fire extinguishers as decoration for the glass infront of the store with blue splashs of paint on all 4 walls, floor and a bit on the ceiling. Thought it was interesting and walked in and waved at her and she was already interested
Convo(the best indirect i done so far) : asked her whats up with the decorations, cold read if she greek, she laughes, and shake hands instant deep dive and teasing/banter she:currently helping with the store, painted the floors, not a party girl, doesn't got a dream yet, works with her friends with delivering boxes, she likes that job, doesn't drink, she asked where i live and relatively near me(she finna fuck ) and i went for the close since i couldn't think of anything else. She try to pull the ' only get 1 chance to remember my number(shit test) ' nope and i pulled out my phone and told her to put it in, i have made some solid compliance I think. She asked
' did she came into the store or me?' all flirty and all hit her with(metaphorically )' the store yes and maybe u' felt cheesy but still passed. Actually checked the store out and came back to her for no fucking reason(i guess i just felt really social after getting that number close) now i think about It at home it could have improved the bond for the better chances of her not flanking on a date and logistics. More banter/teasing left her wondering what was my job oh shit i have to keep up my appearances talked about career paths for me and her i said freelance and she just deliver boxes and left her flirty aloof when i said im not telling u until i meet you the second time ie. Date 1 she gasped or smth like that
She threaten to not see me if i didn't tell her(press x to doubt) repsonded with sure we will see about that. Logistic are bad she is busy on the week days and possibly on the weekend when i asked when is she free.

Closing thoughts: everything was smooth best approach i done so far who is an employee(need to cold approach Girls that are not employees too) i think im getting the hang of it. This is my 5th cold approach or 6th. Last set would be a milestone for phone number close and possibly date if i get texting for date down. Need to really stop relying on that canned approach, but im improving so its somewhat ok since i pull them out of auto pilot with cold reads. I will get it out of my system soon.

Goals: cleaner hooks, use more pre opening, cold approach girls that isn't employees

 

[Nicko]

27.11.20

Went to a different mall venue this time instead of chadstone.

Approached the employee working at General Pants Co. To warm up. It wasn't very spacious and the employees were usually very close to each other. It was uncomfortable for me to open (i could of played it socially and ask them as a group what would they think would suit me but i haven't warmed up at all to have the guts to do it) in total there was 3 of them trotting around checking me out sending me approach invitations after i settled into the venue. I was still anxious and to warm up asked them where was the changing room for the clothes i liked. I walked out and saw 1 employee going back and fourth into the staff room so i asked how it looked and somewhat got warmed up(both of us laughing is the easiest way to shake off the tension and get rid of the AA it seems). Decide to buy it but didn't close(fucking stupid i know)

1st real approach and only approach for the day(lost my social momentum after failing to open to a couple girls)

Set 1: Australian, blondee, blue sweatshirt, handbag, nurse, black jeans, shoulder bag
Black face mask, 160 cm, on her phone

Approach: she was near the rails on the second floors and walked pass her to see any attraction was present. Noticed them and approach invitations was present but my balls wasn't. Pondered approaching by walking back and forth acting distracted on my phone but i eventually said fuck it and opened with a opener

Opener/convo
M: Hey! I saw you leaning over the railing and i wanted to see if you were ok, i thought u were going to jump!
Her: *laughs* oh no but thanks
M: also you have the cutest fit i seen all day
Her: oh thank you! Her eyes dilates
*introduce each other anf shake hands*
M: so whats your career path?
Her: im studying to be a nurse.
M: why is that?
Her:because i like helping people
M: uh huh i see, what are you up to next
Her: im meeting up with someone
*she looks down at her phone or looked down at the people*
It got really uncomfortable for me i think it was that she wasn't receptive and i think my brain froze
*i looked down at the people below minding their own business to think of something *
M: i usually dont make this awkward, but what is ur number?
Her: ummmmm(she was on the fence)
M: is it a yes or no?
Her: nooooooooo?
M:alright thats fine, have a good day
Thoughts: i should have cold her more and what not but that line 'im meeting up with someone' my brain freezed up and assume it was a dude and i got me uncomfortable. At the very least i tried to close and i should have also persisted since she was on the fence

I tried approaching a couple employees but couldn't open even with approach invitations were present

28.11.20

Venus chadstone with a friend and his girl
I was third wheeling with my natural 17 yr friend(i later found out he was already cold approaching girls since he was 13 ). He invited me to join them to shake off yesterday. It was more of a cutsy date that you formal take if you want her to be ur gf. I tagged along and ate with them and caught up with him. I couldn't shake off the AA during with them but i experienced my first negetive attraction. Clear signs of approach invitation, touching hair ect. I went indirect direct. The rest of the day was just failed approaches, AA was holding me back im so annoyed by it.

Today i plan to explore a different part of town. Usually rich asians visit there. I figured haven't really approached any asian girl so i want to try it out there.

 

[Nicko]

29.11. 20
Approached 2 employees sets could of done more but my bitchass decided to call quits prematurely. I don't know if im doing worse then i started or my fundamentals are all over the place(sometimes almost every girl is attracted and at times very few are it kinda bothers me lol).
Venue: another shopping mall what a surprise (i really need to approach girls that are on the streets for reference points)
Set 1: asian, unmotivated voice, 176 cm purple sweater, black jeans. Not attracted to me even with pre selection. Going to sacrifice her to the PUA gods xD. Cleaning up clothes at the changing room as part of their service. I learned from my lesson ur going to have close fast because of the constant interruptions.
Approach:i asked her if there was any rooms to use and she did but there was no fucking attraction visible so i didn't open just then and there as she was walking back to the desk.
Opener: after dicking around in the changing room i got the fuck out naked(i wish xD) and opened to her. Asked about the size of thr clothing and went direct.
Me: also i wanted to say hi cuz ur fucking cute
Her:sorry??
Me: i wanted to say hi cuz ur fucking cute *but louder*
Her:what??
Me: ur fucking cute and i wanted to say hi *even louder*
Her: uh thanks
Me: ..... You single tho
Her: uh no
Me: are you really sure ur single
Her: no, yes, no
Me: u just said a yes
Her:nooo
Me:alright u know what have a nice day
Thoughts: she was probably fucking with me or my voice is really soft with the mask on, she said yes to being single weather by accident or subconsciously but even if that was the case i started off pretty shit and set the needy frame by repeating my self 3 timed so i got fucked before really building any rapport or tease. Next time i would remember to implement some more time constraint on these kind of approaches and get a close fast.

Set 2: malaysian chinese, 160cm, on lower half of her is purple(i love asian girls when they dye their hair), cdg sweatshirt, jeans, black circle(the frame) glasses. Would fuck

Apptoach: visited david jones for a change since i feel like i perform better on employees there. Saw her already looking at me *didn't make eye contact with her yet*
Turned to some jewelry wall with out any glass for her to see me through. Noticed she was staring at me and i returned the eye contact, she looked away as soon as our eyes met( attraction is present). Noticed 1 elderly couple was going to interact her at the desk and i hovered closer. Once she was done i waved her to come over

Opener:

Me: hey do you know any watches that suit me
H: *laughs + smiles * i dont wear any watches
Me: oh that unfortunate what about ear rings
H: *points* its just over there
Me: oh come witb me to look(i assume i pulled frame)
*as we walk over *
Me: man it must be boring standing here all alone waiting for people to come over
Her: laughs* yeah it really is
Me: aren't you lonely? Is it worth it?
Her: *laughs*yeah but its all worth the money
Me:i just realised i that these are all Feminine ear rings
Her: Laughs*
Me: do you have any mens ear ring?.
Her: nooo.
*i disengaged her and look down at the earing cases to think of something to say*
Me: since you guys have watches, ear rings and calone
Her: points in the direction*its just over there
*i awkwardly look at thr ear ring case to think of something to say
Me: oh yeah we haven't introduced each other *extends hand*
I forgot if i said my name and i was looking at my hand( bad habbit . I make eye contact and when they look down when they don't immediately shake my hand)
Her: *she was going to be retracted her hand prob cuz i made her uncomfortable by looking at my hand*
Me: u were going to shake my hand what happen
Her: *just shakes her head*
Me: i had the feeling of you being and artist relaxingly drawing and making money
Her: *chuckles* no
Me: do u have any hobbies?
Her: *shakes her head*
Her*uncomfortably says*: i feel like ur not here for the earings i have to help other customers
Me: *oh fuck i have to instantly close now*
Me:i thought u were fucking cute and i wanted to say hi, whats ur number
Her: noo....
Me: we can be just 'friends'
Her: shakes her head*
Me: do you have a bf?
Her: shakes her head
Me: im heart broken, have a nice day
Thoughts: started off great for first few lines and went down hill from there. I went too indirect i didn't show any intentions and it creeped her out and my habit looking at my hand didn't help. I should of went indrect direct after 2 few lines when attraction was decent. I fucked my self over as soon as i dis engaged her. Next time im going show intention after the first few lines if it goes well. Sigh* this is still a reference point at least i learned something today

Didnt feel like approaching anymore lmao. I will conquer my fear for approaching walking sets next time. I hope the next time i go out it goes alot more smoother and more successful so far only 1 number close and i fucked the first messege( msged her the next day after we really vibed and didn't call her when she didn't respond back)

Goals: approach 1 walking set next tine, use compliment openers, ask what is the time,/directions to warm me up, learn to hook girls in.

-Nicko

 

[Lofty]

Hey @Nicko,

While I am also one of the younger members of the forum, I believe it is in the nature of seduction to provide feedback when appropriate. I have seen this communal dynamic first-hand, and that has been the impetus for my development. So, I felt that I should share some words in your dawning journal.

First off, you should feel extremely proud of yourself for approaching women in this climate. For most men, even the thought of talking to an unknown, beautiful woman has them scurrying away like a scared little mouse, returning to the false comfort of watching other people have sex on a backlit screen. You are already a champion of life.

My next words you will read are about the ever-so-important facet of calibration. Read up on calibration… a lot. Try thinking of calibration as acting in a socially congruent way.

And a lack of calibration is what is causing many of your interactions to either have difficulty getting off the ground or fizzling out into the abyss. Now, also realize that calibration comes with experience and failure, which is how we learn. In fact, I had my own tribulations with calibration during my first approaches, and I do also recall how one of the currently elite, top-of-the-top seducers was once banned from an arts and crafts store. So it’s perfectly normal to come across knee-jerk reactions – like girls quickly rejecting you. But also realize that there are many opportunities to accelerate your learning curve, and these opportunities come alive on this website. For instance, how to meet smooth instead of rigid, and how to win the approach from the very start.

Perhaps you are already making the connection with how calibration applies to you. But let’s take a look at your recent outings for some examples.

Approach:i asked her if there was any rooms to use and she did but there was no fucking attraction visible so i didn't open just then and there as she was walking back to the desk.
Opener: after dicking around in the changing room i got the fuck out naked(i wish xD) and opened to her. Asked about the size of thr clothing and went direct.
Me: also i wanted to say hi cuz ur fucking cute
Her:sorry??
Me: i wanted to say hi cuz ur fucking cute *but louder*
Her:what??
Me: ur fucking cute and i wanted to say hi *even louder*
Her: uh thanks
Me: ..... You single tho
Her: uh no
Me: are you really sure ur single
Her: no, yes, no
Me: u just said a yes
Her:nooo
Me:alright u know what have a nice day

Remember, this is an employee at a store. Her behavior is largely restricted based on her job. For example, she is instructed to be automatically cordial, and on the other end of the spectrum, there may even be rules against giving her contact information to customers. Moreover, she lacks much of the freedom to join you for a wild, spontaneous adventure that she fantasizes about. In other words, there is an expected procedure of an employee-customer interaction, and this approach breaks those expectations. You setup the pretense that she is helping you with clothes but then abruptly insert a direct complement and inquire her relationship status, so of course she will respond with confusion and awkwardness. If you place yourself in her shoes, do you see why this happened, regardless of whether she may have liked you or not?

However, the other girls at the mall, shopping or walking or socializing, have none of these restrictions. Maybe you might even be able to take her home, or set-up an exciting Day 2 opportunity with logistics in your favor. Know that malls have been breeding grounds for generations of seducers, so don’t feel like this is a poor place to approach as that’s not the case. Just try approaching the girls with more flexibility, and see the difference for yourself. Although, I would still advise you to stay fervently imaginative, as I know that banging store employees can be done… in a calibrated way.

Now, let’s take a look at another example. I’m guessing that you already see some ways to improve your following approach.

Apptoach: visited david jones for a change since i feel like i perform better on employees there. Saw her already looking at me *didn't make eye contact with her yet*
Turned to some jewelry wall with out any glass for her to see me through. Noticed she was staring at me and i returned the eye contact, she looked away as soon as our eyes met( attraction is present). Noticed 1 elderly couple was going to interact her at the desk and i hovered closer. Once she was done i waved her to come over
Opener:
Me: since you guys have watches, ear rings and calone
Her: points in the direction*its just over there
*i awkwardly look at thr ear ring case to think of something to say
Me: oh yeah we haven't introduced each other *extends hand*
I forgot if i said my name and i was looking at my hand( bad habbit . I make eye contact and when they look down when they don't immediately shake my hand)
Her: *she was going to be retracted her hand prob cuz i made her uncomfortable by looking at my hand*
Me: u were going to shake my hand what happen
Her: *just shakes her head*
Her*uncomfortably says*: i feel like ur not here for the earings i have to help other customers
Me: *oh fuck i have to instantly close now*
Me:i thought u were fucking cute and i wanted to say hi, whats ur number
Her: noo....
Me: we can be just 'friends'
Her: shakes her head*
Me: do you have a bf?
Her: shakes her head
Me: im heart broken, have a nice day
Thoughts: started off great for first few lines and went down hill from there. I went too indirect i didn't show any intentions and it creeped her out and my habit looking at my hand didn't help. I should of went indrect direct after 2 few lines when attraction was decent. I fucked my self over as soon as i dis engaged her. Next time im going show intention after the first few lines if it goes well. Sigh* this is still a reference point at least i learned something today

We’re living in this weird, dystopia time, right? Where so many people are afraid of touching others, getting close to others, going to the store, and even breathing the air itself. Offering a handshake and promptly initiating touch – to another store employee, no less – is, as you might have guessed… uncalibrated behavior. This urges her mind to withdraw herself from this interaction with a knee-jerk reaction.

Also, I would argue that the problem was not that you went “too indirect” or “didn’t show your intentions”… actually it seems like it was quite the opposite.

Hey, you like Teevster, right? Okay, well, he’s an indirect game trailblazer and one of the best to ever open a girl. One of his recent articles was actually regarding this very idea about intent. Make sure to give that a read, and to really understand how indirect game works, I recommend that you read his three-part series on indirect game as well.

Okay, now that’s a lot to work on. But I can tell how ambitious you are, so I’m sure that if you want to reach 100+ lays by age 18 like Teevster did, then some reading and reflection will be a piece-of-cake.

A few more pointers now to consider.

Learning game is like a sport. It’s impossible (and overwhelming) to try to go from virgin novice to pussy-slaying supreme in one outing. I’ve seen that myself. So while you read and digest all of these new learnings, just pick out a few to apply in-field until you master them. And then as you familiarize yourself with more things you’ve been reading and wondering about, you apply those in-field until mastery. And again, and again. And the process repeats as you internalize concepts. It’s a similar process to becoming an elite basketball player, which is something that is the result of years of dedicated practice.

Next, I’d recommend that you read lay reports from some of the best seducers to attune yourself with smooth, calibrated conversational framework, mastering transition phases, and the cruciality of finely-tuned fundamentals. This will also help to show you just how much is possible… and how many seemingly-impossible things that you can do yourself. Here are some good ones for that purpose:

• LR: Alek's 10th Anniversary! (Featuring Glow, Hot Girls & Juicy Material!)
• LR: Poetic Injustice
• LR: When the girl pulls... mixing SOTS and SEX TALK and containing escalation
• LR: My Old LRs: RSD days
• LR: From Russia with Doggy Style
• LR: "Fifty Shades Of Grey" VS "120 Days Of Sodom"
• LR--: Seduction in Seconds

But there are plenty of others – far too many to list here. This community is an endless expanse of learning material.

Another note – I saw the post from @Dreamer in your other thread. He has years of old-school experience and a deep array of knowledge, so I’d recommend paying close attention to his words. And as someone who has approached a fair share of moving sets in my beginning stages, I can also echo the value of the stationary lone-wolf. That is not to say that you shouldn't take advantage of your opportunities, which I believe we should. I’ve bought into Gunwitch’s mindset of “you see her, you want her, you go.” I think it’s just about learning how to do what, and when to do what.

With that being said, I’ve also experienced the importance of efficiency and even risk-aversion, as Dreamer alludes to as well (these are things that I’m very much still working on myself). I would guess that your number closes (and pulls… and lays) would skyrocket when implementing these learnings on, say, a girl sitting alone on a bench. And it also helps in avoiding precarious situations such as a douche-chode trying to fight you for tempting a sexy girl in his clan, which I’ve also seen myself in a moving mixed set.

Anyway, I hope that you find this information useful.

My final words will be another reminder to make use of the plethora of resources our community has constructed on this website, as there are already solutions for more quandaries than we could even imagine.

All available at our whim, cultivating our imagination.

 

[Nicko]

13.12.20

insert inspiring quote

Todays weather was 33 Celsius (91.4 Fahrenheit)I have forced my self and pushed my comfort zone and cold approach, i have skipped yesterday because of the weather and the week before ( a big no no ) .Then it struck me, why I start this journal? Do i want my fantasy just be fantasy and be and be a pussy for life, Of course not! I picked up my ass and pushed my comfort zone. I promised my self i would not waste this oppertunity. I have planned to start get paid working or get work experience at Chadstone but if i sit my ass at home that wouldn't happen would it. I went to chadstone with my aunt to fix up my grandpas watch and my lil cousin came with us.

outfit: a medium white tee with a rose on the left chest of the tee , black cargo joggers(From JayJay they don't restrict any move moments and they stretch) wonderfully, white Adidas 1 Nmd's
new outfit(changed after i picked up some clothes at Zara[ good place for basic streetwear clothes tho can be quite expensive for some]
black and white stripped tee XL, white denim jacket L(ocassionally took off cuz of the heat lol, bought it for cooler days) and the rest same.

Chadstone was bristling with excitements as the days slowly reach to the 25th . It was only 11:30 am when i arrived at my training ground to my surprise people are already willing to spend thousands of dollars , buying presents, shopping at sales and plenty of the 'Sad Tale Of The Shopping Guy' having their wallets dried up just as their dignity for that piece of ass and hoping to earn her affection by spending money on her especially with male international students who blindly pay thousands of dollars on their international Asian girlfriends. Girls are all heading to Victoria Secret for that luxurious panty sale to show off to their friend( i really need to try and pick up girls in Victoria Secret, that would make an interesting Fr or Lr at some point maybe xD). I could smell Jolly in the air and i want a early Christmas kinky present for my self .


1st(no approach but, but i tried to calibrate my self atleast ): petite asian girl, hair style: the left and right bangs where died white and her hairs are braided like Cammy from street figher( best way to describe it lmao) 2 seperate braids just like cammy just following her from her behinds semi-hour class figure, adidas work unifrom, HB 8.5-9 (she my type), 160cm, diamond-roundish to give her the cute asian girl face.

As i melt into the Addidas venue and let people soak my presence and to settle in so my non-verbal's can do the most of the attraction, as i browse the shoes as originally saw another asian cutie, with a pony tail and died light brown/dark yellow. You know the Asian Lg look that muzz(a form of dance moves that are used at Hardstyle consert? and party( stereotype but its pretty accurate) then she appears out of the pillar next to the shoes and makes her self known to me. I didn't make eye contact with her at all, i stare into the walls of shoes from high to low as if they where my thoughts, she was standing relatively near to the other cutie and in talking distance.

I race my thoughts from high to low: Is she warm enough to open with a canned opener and it won't force her in auto-pilot to allow me to open more convo threads is this can opener calibrated enough? i knew she made her attraction clear but is it enough if i can go direct? no.. i need to think calibrated like @Lofty recommended me to be more calibrated and kindly send me the of the 6 on calibration part series by Teevster.... ugh fuck!, its not smart , its most likely it will force her a knee jerked reaction and its too risky, ugh fuck!' *these toughts happend in a span of a 1 minute*

then a sad tale of the shopping guy but prob a bf with her cold gf( to him at least, she told him to pay for the shoe in a very cold voice and he just accepted it and sat there on his phone ) approached her and robbed my set for the time duration while i was there. I noticed all the glances and hair flips and what not, she even tried to get closer to me but she was pulled back in by them. she was green light, i don't know if it's a calibrated move to approach her( atleast i figured out that direct is not a smart choice in this circumstance lol) but she would just be pulled away? i had the mixture of being afraid of making a uncalibrated move and AA. She gave me a clear approach invitation by walking towards me but i couldn't open there even. Then i overheard her shift is being taken over and she replied with a sad toned 'ohhh' man fuck i need to get my shit together and she went in the off limits area to pack her shit and go. I just dipped at this point.


my thoughs: i was too afraid to be uncalibrated and having a mix of AA is holding me back maybe with a bit of the logistics there with other customers interrupting my selft but more importantly i could have avoided this just by jumping on the spot and use her to warm up but she was so my type i held back a lot i didn't want to fuck up even thou im expected to fuck up anyway. If i fucked up there i would have learned something but i didn't so next time i would just shoot either way.

i had build a lil bit of social momentum on workers by force approaching them when it was mentally uncomfortable, so it was setting my self right directions but i still had a rattling AA, it was still present. I decided to take a quick break and grab a latte and chat up with the employees and gained some more social momentums thats not enough to break it completely then i looked up Todd V(quick references) on Approach Anxiety, and it made sense to me to focus on something very small and progressively build it up ex. eye contact, just smiling, waving, asking the time/directions, direct/indirect, and ect. i have then it soothed it. I was thinking too much, i should just focus on baby steps to not expect my self to master everything at once. This really stopped the AA to a very good degree and made more comfortable with approaching strangers.

set 2: tall, 6 foot 2 with heels, white jeans, white heels, white some form of shirt that's revealing her shoulders with embroiders (lol you know at this point where you call it a shirt cuz girls got all kind of fucking tops and its easier to call it a shirt), white with dyed blond dreads tied up in the middle of head like a pony tail flailing behind her while revealing her baldness beauty of her head xD ( nothing wrong with it, it honestly struck out to me
and caught my attention)

approach: i walked near hear and pretended to be looked lost while not making any eye contact with her and was stalling for a opener as she has already made it clear she wants to be approached. She was on her phone and she looked over at me and touched her hair. Then i suddenly noticed the bag of what she was holding! even if its directions its still a step up then not approaching at all.
I walked towards her, waved with eye contact( should of smiled more effect)*
Convo:
Me: hey do you know where Daiso is?(higher pitch tonality to appear warm)
Her: oh its over its just over there! points*
Me: smiles* oh thanks i was just a bit lost
Her: *giggles and smiles* no problem
then a uncalibrated old dude (lol) walks through the spaces between us( like when ur talking with another person and there is a bit of personal space, ad this mf just walks through that space lol. im pretty sure she glared at him too xD) 'no problem' and cuts the convo. I left and went on my merry way,

my thoughts: I honestly could of continued but i was too focused on baby steps and sub consciously ejected but anxiety was a lot more less.

set 3(approach ish): white, blondee with a cute pony tail, simple blue jeans and a white tee while holding a book/ notebook like a high school girl(bonous cute points, my first thought was i was willing to bet $10 that she is a virgin xD)
there is not a lot to write but while she was in the way while i was looking at some random stuff and she was in the way and i said 'exuse me' so she could move, it was wasn't much room from the stationary shop we were at a box shape path way, think of this pathway like walking on the sides of box., it seems that it snapped out of her daily auto pilot and she started showing attraction to me and she moved into the box pathway and while looking forward as if i was intrested in the objects in front of me. she was already to my right and hovered around me for a bit, I tried to calibrate to her but she was out of talking distance and i tried to hover closer to her without directly walking up to her open there and wanted to try a compliment opener too come off more smooth but she has already moved behind me and staring at me(lol) i returning the eye contact. She looked down and i think she blushed and quickly left... aww so cute t
my thoughts: too bad i should have moved more quickly to open her while she was hovering from my left and right while i was thinking of how to calibrate it come off more smooth. that was the last chance i had when she stared at me from behind.. damn that had to be a direct if i wanted to save her but i had to chase her, my own ego stopped me for that last chance. But im slowly relieving my AA by at least saying excuse me as some form of pre-open? i guess you could call it
set 4: rince repeat like set 3 don't remember jack shit but i didn't open cuz i was afraid of coming of uncalibrated even i knew she was attracted.

set 5: Salankin? couldn't guess her ethnicity by her skin colour, ironed hair so slightly tiwrly at the ends, brown eyes, blue jeans, green 'top' lol, carrying a bag, faked to be on her phone lol,

approach: she wasn't the intended target as originally i try to tail a employee( 5'9, twirled resting hair, orange-brown high lights, black jeans and tops that ass was for sure juicy) , she preened/touched her hair as i saw her walk past me to the about 1 meter to the right i took that as attraction ,like i always do when especially when they are not facing you especially and you're behind them. Girls subconsciously know when you are looking at them its really strange huh but i diagress she was interacting with an employee outside the store and i assumed she was gonna be there a while and stood at the side line and leaned on to glass rails(second floor) then before i turned around to look... fuck she's gone. I just reflected on what has happened so far today made eye contacts with girls as they made by, Attraction is present but man they are always in groups (i swear every time lol)and i was feeling kinda lazy lol and look how decided to put her self in the position in front my peripheral vision. Opposite to the rail she she leans on to it and looks at me glances at me while touching her hair while I was not really paying much attention to her. then she drops her bag while facing her ass towards me( that has to be intentionally no way that fucking isn't). I have to be fucked to not approach her. As i walk over i see her make a fake phone call? then goes back to her phone

convo:
Me: excuse me( warmer tonality)
her: on her phone*
Me: Exuse me( same tonality)
her: *looks at me, pretty sure her eyes dilated*
Me: do you know where is HnM?
Her: actually its over there
Me:* smiles* oh thanks
Her: *smiles*

personal thoughts: yeah i could of did direct but ehhhh, and continue the convo but baby steps got me held back, oops but AA was completely gone The baby steps are a good tool for me to use to get rid the AA completely and get me comfortable to approach girls with more comfort. This way of approaching letting them come to you while you sit there and relax is actually not a bad way to screen out girls very quickly. I feel pretty comfortable with stationary sets as of now but its not true cold approach of all these approaches i have done. I will stick to this kind of approach( her signaling interest first then approach) since it is better for my AA .

overall thoughts :There was 5 more sets but it was really consits of loitering around and missing out the opportunity on employees like pre opening -> she becomes occupied or i was too slow( all up in my head) and they finished work. Its kinda annoying and it must be frustrating for the girls to carry these social burdens (other customers) when there is someone she is attracted to, waiting for him to say hi to her . The only way to counter this is go approach while you have the time but i usually hold back a second and pretend to look distracted to calibrate. I need to speed up my thoughts and jump quick and calibrate on the flow on how are reactions to my approach however, these 2 stationary sets were a good outcome and i feels so great and completely negates all negative feeling with these failed attempts so worth the pain.

next goals: ask simple directions on walking sets using (street stop techniques by chase), baby steps to warm up, go beyond the convo with stationary sets
-over all i take this day as a W even with the ass start, getting more comfortable with stationary sets
-Nicko

 

[Velasco]

i could have avoided this just by jumping on the spot and use her to warm up but she was so my type i held back a lot i didn't want to fuck up even thou im expected to fuck up anyway.

I honestly could of continued but i was too focused on baby steps and sub consciously ejected

Me: Exuse me( same tonality)
her: *looks at me, pretty sure her eyes dilated*
Me: do you know where is HnM?
Her: actually its over there
Me:* smiles* oh thanks
Her: *smiles*
yeah i could of did direct but ehhhh, and continue the convo but baby steps got me held back

Sacrifice The Lamb

Readers of YaReally’s archive may remember a concept he called “Sacrifice The Lamb” as a way to beat Approach Anxiety and get yourself in state (social mood) pretty quick. The way it'd work is, right before approaching a girl, you’d approach viewing her as the metaphorical ‘lamb’ you’d be...

www.skilledseducer.com

I know with malls, there's usually 2 floors. So what you can do with directions is

For girls on the first floor => ask for directions to a store * on the second floor.
For girls on the second floor => ask for directions to a store on the first floor.

* Make sure the store is one that all girls will likely know where it's at (that is congruent for you to be asking directions for. i.e. starbucks) to avoid "i don't know" responses.

So after they tell you where its at, you can accuse them of lying (you can't accuse her of lying, if say you ask a girl for directions to a store that is on the same floor/across from you guys). "really? hey but wait (if they start walking away) I was just down/up there. i didn't see it? you're not lying to me just to get rid of me are you? (with that face you make when you accusing them of something but clearly fucking around with them" face)? Keep it going. Ask, what are they up to right now is my go to after this. then your social brain (getting in state activates it) will take over (the more you read and go out, the better your social brain knows what to do) And you'll know what to do.

good luck.

 

[Nicko]

Hello Members. I just notice this journal.

Avoid saying that you are below 16. I know this is kinda hilarious hearing from me noting this because I say a lot of stuff that is considered offensive to the general public.

So yea. Is it possible to change the journal name?

p.s: Girlschase can delete my politics post if necessary or shadow banned so that content is there but not visible.

I get it man. This media is nuts.

I be deleting this post in a day!

Yeah no problem @ZacAdam , i cant seem to edit the title(previously only could be changed if you it was ur first post while showing the edit button) is there a way i can change the title without making a new journal?

 

[Nicko]

14.12.20

The sun pierces you with its ray of light and this light is a fucking lazerbeam(im exaggerating at this point).
I force my ass to go out again when its 33 Celsius again. I just realized its not all that hot cuz of ventilations and ACs in Chadstone so i can't use the weather is hot excuse. im an idiot xD
2 employee set, 1 walking set , 1 stationary set.


couldn't build any social momentum but set 1 warmed me up to get going.
venue: book store (inside Chadstone/mall)
she approached me first while i was 'browsing' books but really i was trying to get my self warmed up but even approaching
the employee seemed like a huge hurdle and stayed in the the venue at least more than 20 minutes even with given approach initiation from the girls inside the venue and the employees . As she noticed me approached me all be it
she isn't on the standards of HB but you know it will get the ball rolling. Interesting about the Bookstore that it you'll occasionally find interesting people cough* cough* sjws, probably because their is a gender studies( my soul cringe every time i walk pass it) section
set 1: meat roll(no offense), possibly greek? due to nose, all black jeans and shirt, dutch braids+ brunette but she was a cool girl
convo:
her: Hey are you looking for something?
Me: hey i'll be hoenst im starting to pick up reading, what book should be my first?
Her: what genres are you really into?
Me: im more into pyschology, busines stype of books
Her: haha( nervous laughter), i don't know much about these kind of genres but lets take a look!
*walks towards that section*
Her: i personally never read it but my friends have said its good
Me: huh, what kind of books do you read?
her: i actually like to read non-ficiton kind of books instead of these kinds.
Me: why is that?
her: i find these books make you think (lol), i want to kick back and relax and not think too much
Me: non-fiction sounds interesting interesting lets see
her: sure!
*a few walks and where at the non ficiton area. its staced up to the wall from bottom to top with books, quite the big book case 2-3 metere tall to 1 meter wide*
Me: huh when you said non-fiction imagined you reading romance novels.
Her: *laughts* i don't read romance novels, i read actual non fictions books
Me: i have a feeling you are lying*
Her: ok actually i read some but! i like these kind of non fictions *graps it from the shelve and shows me a book*
*the cover displays a women's face, facing to the left with a religious hood/hat/scarf?on top of her head( of some sort , i have seen it i believe its cultural and i don't know the name of it) painting in bright colors of light blue,mellow yellow and dark blue from shades from the neck to end of the hat/hood/scarf*
Me: what makes this so interesting?
*tells me about it and i qualify her and we check another book, it turns out as i ask her her mother got her into her books, joked about her always wanting her probably nagging her mother to read books, she dropped reading in uni and got back into it. I eneded the convo and she was green ligjt for a close but it would be quite awkward if we don't meet or text. I have taken a liking to this venue instead of typical clothing venues so ill leave her as mere acquaintances*

personal thoughts: girls that are reading are usually on auto-pilot and don't show much obvious ques that like you( no hair touching ) besides trying to hover close to u(then its obvious) while having a book in front of them. Even saying 'excuse me' to get them to move. doesn't quite break auto-pilot most of the time still doesn't work unless its employees or girls who are not having their eyes glued to the book. Using their books as a prop to open sounds easier enough for me ex. '' what book ur reading, ur staring it so intently you might just go blind! *smile* then everything should be easy.

set 2( first cold approach+ walking set)
she had strong eye lashes, brown eyes, black sport bra, and probably black tights or jeans, oval face and a protruding nose while holding her black hand bag.
approach: no attraction was present( her eye's maybe sparkled but unsure from her tonality)so it was rather platonic. pre open with eye contact and waving then she slowed down
convo:
me: hey do you know here is aldi?
her: go down the escalator and turn left and u should see it
me: are you sure( to stall)
her: it should be as you go down and turn left
me: ok..
her: *turns her body after that* good luck
personal thoughts: rather was platonic but could of used valasco's line, im going to use it, i stalled to rattle my brain but it didn't seem to came up with anything at the stall.

I know with malls, there's usually 2 floors. So what you can do with directions is

For girls on the first floor => ask for directions to a store * on the second floor.
For girls on the second floor => ask for directions to a store on the first floor.

* Make sure the store is one that all girls will likely know where it's at (that is congruent for you to be asking directions for. i.e. starbucks) to avoid "i don't know" responses.

So after they tell you where its at, you can accuse them of lying (you can't accuse her of lying, if say you ask a girl for directions to a store that is on the same floor/across from you guys). "really? hey but wait (if they start walking away) I was just down/up there. i didn't see it? you're not lying to me just to get rid of me are you? (with that face you make when you accusing them of something but clearly fucking around with them" face)? Keep it going. Ask, what are they up to right now is my go to after this. then your social brain (getting in state activates it) will take over (the more you read and go out, the better your social brain knows what to do) And you'll know what to do.

good luck.

set 3(employee): light ginger , light pink tank top , blue jeans, blue eyes, probably Australian. She was real bubbly.
approach: walking around after set 2 to do the same shit but man there are in 2-3 sets and i avoided opening any mandarin people
but anyway noticed her checking me out and looking down while flipping her hair and i hovered to her stand. I hovered closer without paying her any eye contact and made her approach me.
convo:
her: so let me guess your just browsing and stuff *smiles and giggles*
me: you know how it is, i can tell you look pretty lonely standing there all day.
her: yeah i know *giggles*
Me: am i allowed to come in?( inside the stand area where they sell stuff.)
her: yeah sure!
I explore and ask what kind of stuff and what not.
Me: so im looking for a gift for my aunty(we all that is bs lol)
her: oh ok!, flower candles or scents would be great
Me: flower candles? huh would you be happy if someone brought them for u?
her: of course!
Me: huh, would u actually buy them?
her: yeah, but i get them for free *points to them*
Me: i can imagine you having them all in ur room to show off to ur friends
Her: *laughs* i actually do have all of them in my room, my friends thinks its weird
Me: *i loled* there is the crazy cat lady and ur the crazy flower cent lady
Her: * crosses her arms but giggled* i have a partner and he gets annoyed by it
*brain.exe has stopped working, loading Brainfreeze.exe 100%*
i bid her farewell after trying to reconnect with her but couldn't, it got awkward knowing she has a partner
Me:* sub-consciously i got a bit awkward* haha, ill continue browsing.
*i eneded the convo and tried to reconnect by asking is this the same but i had a mental blockage to open convo threads*
continue talking to her for no reason(after using the gift excuse) is uncalibrated at that point i have used 2 times and didn't open other threads
i couldn't continue it anymore and bit her farewell with out closing( instant regret)

my thoughts: Man fuckk, she has a partner , I knows she likes me judging my her eyes dilating, touching hair and ect but the arms cross threw me off, i fucked up and should of played it cool and act like it was no big deal, attraction dwindled away after that part . should of closed lmao im retarded sometimes.

set 4: tall 180cm, blue suspenders, black top, probably in her 30's judging from her wrinkles near the cheeks, brown eyes, diamond face shape, brown hair, split hair style, black boots
approach: i was pretty bummed out on set 3 tbh and i was sitting down on a couch and saw he leaning against the wall all day looking at me, planned to approach her the first time but walked past her( AA) and i walked back to opened her with direct. As i walk back i made eye contact and smiled at her. She smiled back too( good start)
convo:
me: hey i saw u standing over here, i thought u were cute and i wanted to say hi
her: *giggles+ smiles*thanks youuuu, sorryyy but i have a girlfriendddd * pats me on the shoulder*
me: ohh....(uh wtf do i do then xD)
Her: *smiles*still thank you for the compliment, im sorryyy...
me:: well thats ok, have a nice day
Her:*smiles* sorry you too!

my thoughts: well that was surprising thats the first when girls say they have a gf instead of a bf (lol) the rejection didn't hurt it actually felt better
i could of contiued the convo but i got awkward first so that was a mistake on my part. If ignored the gf part and went on to continue the convo
ex: ''btw why are u standing over here?'', ''what brings you too busy chadstone all by ur self'', ''cute suspenders you a mechanic?'' and ect.

that was it for that day, still a W opened to a real cold approach and it was a walking set.

 

[Nicko]

17.12.20

forced my out to go and cold approach again.
The Bookstore venue is going to be my bread and butter. Maybe this is a problem but i see it as a problem. I tried figure out who is working and is not working to avoid them\ seeing me too much and wonder why am i not buying anything *cough* *cough* be 'that guy' who picks up chicks in the bookstore. A pink dyed hair employee(sjw? i don't think her body figure would say not, quite slim thick) with circular glasses who first showed attraction when i first discovered this venue . I wanted to approach her at first but thought about it its not worth the awkwardness since ill be visiting this venue a lot when i got out. This is the 3rd-4th time seeing her in in this venue and i can tell she is curious about me and this could be a good(too approach) or bad thing( disrupt my cold approaches inside the girls inside the venue. for ex. gossip about me to her other eployee friends and blacklist me or whatever). Anyway im going to avoid that venue for some time or when she is not there.
1 set(inside that bookstore): 15-17??, bronze circular glasses, 170cm, green sexy top, blue jeans.
convo:
me hey have you seen x book
her oh ah its there
me thanks, the school wants us to read this annoying book
her: *giggles* yeah
me: do you read?
her: i have it, i just haven't read it
me: huh
*ends*
it was a mistake when i exited my state by looking at the book i should of continued the convo with open threads. God damn it, attraction was there and she awkwardly lingered there but got fed up and left. I need to work on the open threads.

2 group set:
approached 2 white girls. the tall( 165cm) one had light brown hair, typical white girl look, white tank top, blue levi jeans. Short girl black top and blue jeans. It was a real cold cold approach, opened with directions but didn't carry on the convo. No attraction was present when i initiated the approach but my eye-contacts, relaxed body posture was able to turn it over to my favor and this really desensitized my AA with 2 groups sets.
i'm slowly tackling my AA for group sets. I didn't continue the convo for whatever reason again. Baby steps helped me now its cucking me lol

set 3: asian, green shirt, black jeans, no interest? she looked away submissively to the right when i made eye contact with her
approached( with a wave) and asked for 'directions' and she continued walking.

I lost all social momentum and i eventually mentally exhausted myself from walking in circles and got trapped in that zone. Walking all day and not opening by the end of set 3.
Realistic goals: become desensitized to cold approach with baby steps( progressing pretty well i guess but im passing alot of girls who wants to be approached), open and continue the convo with open threads, third close on a high note

 

[Nicko]

20.12.20
Today was a real good day. Save the hype... i made decent progress. Handled my AA pretty well and approached with ease though a bit shaky at beginning. approached .

dressed to kill: white denim jacket, white stripped tee for contrast, black cargos and white nmd 1's( grey 'lego' parts xD ifyky ur shoes)

ill get these to sets out since they are the juicy parts. 2 phone number pulls from 1 stationary set and 1 semi stationary(walking around in the venue and hovering).that are not employees lmao. Not really considered a cold approach as she showed attraction or i waited for attraction to work in my favor then approached. Both responded to my icebreaker. we'll call 1 HBnasa and the other HBlynx. Send 2 ice breakers and they both responded, HBlynx responded instantly
ice breaker: hey! HBlynx it was nice meeting you [7:10pm]
HBlynx : ''hey [me]! Sorry I was kinda awkward meeting you but you were really nice so thanks lol .Anyways HIIII'' [7:10pm]
Me: '' dw about it , when are u free " [7:49pm]
HBlynx: Yeah sure Sorry about the late reply lol i literally got just got home, where tho? [10:10pm]
*i went to slept and didn't respond*
me: ''what suburb u in'' [7:10 am]
HBlynx: [place] but it's fine im used to travelling far [8:54 am]


side note: if my logtistics are good im getting fucking laid boys xD

HBlynx(set 6): sharp diamond shape face with asian asthetics , black top, gray kelvin klein sweatpants( juicy plum ass ), long black hair styled in some form of braid leaving 2 long strands hanging from the front and back is just normal( maybe a half top) , a bit of a gap between her top and her leggings revealed her sexy flat stomach, 167cm.
context convo upon first meeting each other: she was sitting down with her lil bro and i waited until showed attraction then i approached. She wasn't attracted or i couldn't see her sneaky glances and waited for pre-selection and attraction to work for me from the waking sets that were in front of us. I waited by the rails and us peripheral vision to check on her time to time. Then she did.
* pre open with a wave * her reponse neutral
me: hey that's a cute boyfriend( she was with her lil bro 5 ish old)
her: uhhh thanks *looks at me a bit aloof/awkward look*
me: im Nicko *extends handshake*
her: *shakes hand awkwardly*uhhhh (still awkward look)
me: i don't remember uhhhh a name( with a warmer tone)
her: you tell me(frame Shit test)
me: you first (passed shit test. attraction went up alot + she looked down )
her: im x.
me: it wasn't that hard was it s ?
her: mmhhh? she put her hand in her ear to hear better
me: are you deaf *laughs* ( that was uncalibrated )
her: i just didn't hear you * she put her bag on her body as a sign of discomfort but doesn't mean she doesn't have attraction for me*
me: im just joking ( i saw her lil bro looking at me kinda awkwardly so_
*towards lil bro*
me: *smile* hii im x ur name is *extended hand for handshake*
lil bro: *says his name and shakes my hand without hesitation* (that actually warmed my heart, lil bro u rock!!)
me: *laughs* i like him already * i face towards HBlynx*
her: *giggles*
me: anyway i thought u were cute and whats ur number?
her: uhhh what.....( attraction is still there she is just genuinely confused)
me: is this your first time *laughs*??
her: idk what is going on *smiles*
me: how many guys have done this?
her: nooo, no one has ever don this ?
me: are u sure?( tease)
her: welll... actually only a few
me: i like that fact u said no then oh well actually a few( tease)
her: *laughs* (ez rapport)
me: well anyway whats ur number?
her: well its xxx *grabs her phone from her bag*
me: actually here ill put in for u * pulls out my phone*
her: *hands me her phone*
me: *i pull out my phone cuz i actually don't remember my number at all no even kidding u, to type it into her phone and call *
me: i know its really dumb that how i cant even remember my number, now hold my phone.
her: *laughs*( keep em coming) *holds my phone and shows to her self lmao*
me: show the phone to me idiot
her: *giggles*
me: typer ur name in my phone
her: *she does*
me: i like the fact where ur name is full cap in the contact info its like someone saying *HBYNX * out loud when ever u read the name
her: *laughs
me: how old are you?
her: im 16( wtf i thought she was older)
me: what im 14 * takes off my mask*
her: what really!! ur 14 *surprised Pikachu face*
me: well soon im 15 in a week, take guess when
her: is it x day
me: yepp
me: why were u awkward earlier ? are u shy?? *hands her phone back*
her: yeah im just shyy
me: shy girls are cute( to validate her so she doesn't become so awkward???)
me: so what are u doing for christmas

ill end it there and long story short. i got her number and asked what is she doing for Christmas. but i cut it short halfway and make a joke about realising on the spot that asians don't celebrate christamas as much( for the most part lol) we just give red pockets money (envolope money) isntead and call it a day. She laughed which is good asked what she was doing later. she asked me 'now'? but i meant later and turns out she is free on the weekend i was going to leave but decided to sit down to quickly build more rapport. She awkwardly/shyly? complied and shuffled over teased her with the shuffle, laughes again .Asked why she out here, turns out she is shopping with her mum and asked what school( logistical problem here: I may have misheard the school name and this school is in in west side of my city. More than 2 hour drive to my mall. If thats the case im going to need lots of investment to get a date near my home to pull or fuck in public for last resort to keep her around).
before i could open more threads. her mum came out, said hi to her and let them go. Before she stood up( we were both sitting down) i asked when she is free and she sad 'everyday'(perfect), said my farewell to them and to her 'see you soon' with sexy quint eye contacts.
personal thoughs: i said her being a deaf was a miss calibration probably because she was aloof at first and i went a bit aloof too then i recovered by making har laugh. I flipped the script on her frame shit test from the beginning pretty well. I swear the countless shit test i have encountered from school lmao have trained me well, thanks to u sassy barbie dolls that give me shit test left and right for shits and giggles in school x u guys have has helped me. My impression are strong and rapport is good enough for a date judging from her sexual availability and current attraction. but closing so fast is not smart, if I didn't the passed the shit test ill would have not likely gotten her number when i closed so fast. I need to train my self to not quickly eject and get her to hook, build emotional investment then close for number. I hope i have misheard the school and name is similar to the one near me, if thats not the case i have to get alot of investment from her to set the date near my place for easier pull or fuck in public or go to her place ( 3 hour drive from my place to city then west side suburbs of the city).

HBnasa(set 4): white nasa sweater(u know why now lol), yellow/brown lg high lights, black yoga pants,2 bangs on the side of her face.
ice breaker 2 hour after approach
hbnasa: '' ohh heyy!! it was nice to meet u too
30min later
me: ''i like ur wink, what does ur schedule look like next week?
(havn't responded...)

approach: saw her in the shoes section of myer and i knew i had to approach. AA was kinda there ish but then i realized her mum was with her ( fuckkk) i loitered around for 10 min/20 min until she left her on her own and i think she caught my pre open( couple winks) and i mumbled about her mum being there and i can't say hi or something related to that. She made 1 opening but i hesitated and then her mum kept watching her and following her. To my surprise is that she shoowed her off when she was trying to isolate her self for me. I feel so bad for the mum xD. When she has sufficiently isolated her self away from her mum i approached. She was looking down at the shoes not completely paying attention to me.
convo:
me: hey, u think these heels fit me?
her: huh?
me: im just joking i thought u were cute i just wanted to say hi im Nicko *extends hand *
her: *shakes my hand shyly* im HBnasa
me: whats ur number? ( i know i shouldn't have closed here. I completely forgot about the process)
her: u can have my ig... ( her face is red lmao)
me: i don't take igs ( fuck that xD)
her: ok, why my numbers? *as she takes her phone out and hands it to me*
me: here ill put my numbers in( she can't give me a fake number) *whips out my magical phone*
me: *types it in*
me: so we have some coffee or something, is this ur first time anyone have done this to u?
her: yess... *quietly*
me: wait how old are you? *returned her phone*
her: 16( lmao)
me: im 14! *laughs*
her: realllyyyy? *giggles*( she is curious now)
me: i can show u my school id card( tease)
her: why do u need that
me: i can tell ur eyes are curious and u don't know that im lying or not
her: *laughs*
long story short from the convo : i asked her nationality turns out she was Cambodian, joked about how i couldn't tell tell cuz cambo are more darker pigment. she laughs asked where i was from responded im chinese she hit(metaphoricall) me with 'hi hao' we laughed. Asked who is 'she'(her mum) for more rapport, teased her does she always follow her around , asked which school responded and a couple friends go there( fuckk maybe i shouldn't have said that ) said where from which school. . Asked her if she needs help with picking shoes(setting up for a tease), she was fine and didn't need help and i teased her you really do, i saw u pouting earlier, laughs again. I mentioned about telling her mum about me, that tell her we are friends so it won't be off from her perspective so she won't cockblock me in the future(the date).She asked if i was alone, i said i was with 'her'( bs story for preselection and blurted out 'are you single'. i forgot what i said. Bid her farewell after that and said ill see her soon, i forgot as she walks away and gestured to come back and she did ( (she entered my frame!?). I forgot to put my name in on her phone and we giggled and then we parted ways.

personal thoughts: i wasn't thinking about the hook at all but i still managed to hook her after the number close so i think thats okay, maybe i number closed it sub-consciously cuz her mum was there and i was under pressure from her lol. maybe i should of approached her first after she sufficiently isolated her self but i didn't since her mum was watching her as she went off further away from her
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not as interesting parts

set 1(stationary set) : green vintage sweater, 164cm blonde, blue jeans. brown dilated eyes , white cloth handbags, vans
approached her on the spot, while she was on the phone and showed bassline attraction to me.
convo;
m ' oh hey excuse do you x do you know this place?
h: oh heyyy um i actually don't know here it is *giggles but i can look it up for you
m: *laughs* are you new around here too(bs lie lol
h: *giggles yeah* im actually from x place and its my first time here *goes on map on her phone*
m: oh really?
h: im actually x and im new here, ok so here is where we are and it should be... im bad with maps *giggles*
m: yeah i could tell
h: *laughs* ok its here
m: thanks! see ya around

personal thoughts: should of open more thread, and close. Not really hooked but showed attraction

set 2(warm up) stationary and stuck in one position, next to a information tower? like where they are placed there to give directions lol(yeah its that big. brown pigment, pony tail, navy suit, navy pants and a white collar shirt
convo: asked her where some directions were and she gave a off tone. Teased her being moody and sad with her tone. She went 'oh reallyyy' while leaning forward like a Disney character as well expressing cartoonish eyes as they widen. joked her being bored and it scares away people. She started chasing/ framing 'its the mask thats whyyy'. wished her the best and told her to be more enthuastic from now on lol
personal thoughts: im building my social momentum

*i looked to my library venue back and forth to check for good sets but there wasn't any that interested me beside maybe 1 of the employees*
after set 2 i was loosing a bit of momentum from girls i walked past and i didn't approach and dicking around in venues for too long and not really opening to employees or the girls inside there(with a.i)
set 3( no approach): tiger top and sexy blue jeans. sharp european face( very sharp jawed and side a diamonded face the ,lips were full) that ass was like latina fat. a handbag on her shoulder. brown hair with layers. I was going to approach after i noticed her attraction and that irresistible ass.
i tailed her around while she showed attraction to me. i pre opened her with a wink as i saw her in a shop. and tailed her outside when she was walking but my god my heart was racing( like u could feel the pressure in the heart, its so jumpy) and pussied 2 times. For the last fucking time i swore to my self. I was going to do it and she slowed down for mee.... she fucking turned into a shop to my left as she was in front of me. She made a 90 degrees turn and i was startled( bruh me ) and i didn't open... i was annoyed by that a lot and i decided to go grab a drink.

set 4( sitting): middle aged greek women, scarlet brown in a pony gail, dark red, sweater skirt,.
approach: after loosing my momentum i and i grabbed a drink and sat down beside her to earn my mometum. The initial 5-7 minutes i was observing her attraction since when i sat down i wasn't sure. I was a bit lost how should i open then i heard an announcement from the mall about covid masks and what not. Opened her with the covid mask about how fucking annoying it is .
convo summed up( it wasn't all that interesting after opening about the covid masks and how annoying it is, i asked her what brings her out to chadstone, turns out with a son and her daughter to buy a couple stuff from coles(where i got my water from, and we were sitting beside coles) she said her husband is currently preparing something. I asked what do u guys plan for christmas turns out she is preparing a christmas party with family and friends and what not, her ethicity is greek. teased her nose about it, she was neutral about the tease. Husband is Australian, She has many ehticity from jewish, british and a few more i forgot. She is for all of the celebration from different ethnicities. Joked about do she really prepare turkey on christmas. She actually do even though the jewish can't eat it( she explained but i can't remember the reason why) so they are doing it from their culture to balance it out . She said its hard work and its worth it. Her kids came i bid her farewell.
personal thoughts: everything went pretty smoothly and second sitting set , AA is not holding me back on these future cuties.

set 4: is already written up there lol

set 5(walking set): korean, light brown hair, white shirt and white jeans, heels? cute asian oval face. large eyes, eye browns were tinted brown.
approach: i made eyecontact with her as she was infront of me and showed attraction(flipped hair) she instantly darted her eyes onto the top to see the name of the shops, i let her walk by and turned around to use the 'turn around' technique from chases article on street stops. She was walking too fast and i was catching up then she hovered into a venue( intentionally for me?)and was not far from the door, looking at the products placed onto the table.and i nodded twice looking at her( im sure she saw my nod e and she went in. She went inside this cosmetic venue and hovered towards the left wall while i was on the right. Everything was going to plan and i was going to hover closer then an employee starting interacting with her, she persuaded to buy a small facial product of sorts. then walked towards the cashier and waited outside the table of the venue to pretent to be distracted. I use peripheral vision to check on her and she made eye contact with me and i winked to pre-open. Im pretty sure she caught it. after she walked out i caught up and opened.
convo: '
me: hey u have the most stunning walk i have seen all day
her: huh?
me: uh, you have the most stunning walk style(lol said that by accident) i have seen all day
her: i don't understand
me: you don't speak english?
her: sorry im korean
me: what i thought u looked chinese *laughs*
her: can you speak Chinese
me: yes but can u?
her: noo
me: ugh! u make it so difficult * i laugh*
her: *smiles, her attraction went up for some reason*
me: you know what, what is ur number?
her: oh sorry i have a husband( oh wtf! xD)
me: oh oops have a good day

i left and that was pretty amusing and i loled out loud. i never thought that i was gonna get hit with a husband objection out of all things from her. Man its so hard to tell how old these asian girls are i thought to myself ( unintentional foreshadowing lol)
personal thoughts: maybe she knew what i was saying and proceeded to not understand ??but she knew what husband was and a phone number lmao im not sure but i knew she liked me. I need to know how to deal with language barriers soon.

I won't count theses as actual sets (employee) because i fucked my self over as they intially approached me.
1# redish brown hair pony tail, asian, vintage tee, blue jeans, soft eyes, asian with a whiter pigment . freckles on her cheeks
she didn't quite show much attraction non-verbally but hovered around me time to time when i was repeadly going to the same venue over and over about 4 times. she asked ''i have seen you before, why u keep coming back'' i responded ''oh haha yeah im just browsing''( incorrect response as i should of said isntead ''thats cute u spying on me? are you going to stop me?'' then continue from there

2# blonde, hair split, red lips, black tee shirt, black jeans, 174cm, slim thicc. smiled at me as i walked past as i made eye contact. she broke eye contact and looked to the left like a cheeky child who may have found something she likes. It was at a myer venue and facial cosemetics were placed out. and lipsticks happen to be her station unfortuantely i fucked my self with her approach. '' Hey is there anything i can help u with?'' she asked as i stop to hover at her station she instantly approached me too and my automatic Reponses responded her with ''oh no im just browsing'' and i couldn't open more threads after she hovered in front and around me. i got hung up on what i said even she showed attraction and a.i. I need to fix my automatic reponse and actually not cut her approach like that and open threads or reframe it to get it going instead of shutting her down completely.

Today was an overall killer, i completely forgot about my baby steps and just went for it lmao
~nicko

 

[Nicko]

update text with HBlynx and HBnasa
HBlynx

(old)
ice breaker: hey! HBlynx it was nice meeting you [7:10pm]
HBlynx : ''hey [me]! Sorry I was kinda awkward meeting you but you were really nice so thanks lol .Anyways HIIII'' [7:10pm]
Me: '' dw about it , when are u free " [7:49pm]
HBlynx: Yeah sure Sorry about the late reply lol i literally got just got home, where tho? [10:10pm]
*i went to slept and didn't respond*
me: ''what suburb u in'' [7:10 am]
HBlynx: [place] but it's fine im used to travelling far [8:54 am]
(new)
me: x? where is that and whats it like.I can tell u love travelling( im stalling i haven't figured the logistics) [10:29am]
HBlynx: its like X place kind of thing, it's futher than [a train line] anyway/ It's like a country town and I like having the space and its a whole vive tbh
HBlynx: oh wait do you have insta? Maybe we can chat from there. [10:29 am]

HBnasa

(old)
hbnasa: '' ohh heyy!! it was nice to meet u too
30min later
me: ''i like ur wink, what does ur schedule look like next week?
(havn't responded...)
(new)
Hbhasna: Lol we have emoji u know *laughing face with tears*
Hbnasa:Free on weekdays *gritting teeth emoji*
me: i just remembered ur face was a *tomato emoji* when i said hi lol. what suburb u in

Im going to get a date with HBlynx first, she has enough rapport it seems and attraction for me, HBNasa seemed cooled off going to need bit more rapport then i can pull for a date without flaking. Will keep this post updated*
I don't plan to give HBlynx for my ig, ill send her a
'' I don't give girls who i met once my ig. remind me again on x(when logistics is gold) date and x(not yet decided) location '

For Hbnasa reponse ill try and open a bit more threads with her suburb and go for a date then. she seems a bit flakey. the tomato anchor was to get her chase me again to get her qualify her self for me putting me in a more optimal position.

 

[Nicko]

22.12.20

Today was a good day aswell.I have approached at least 12 sets or more and at least 8 were walking sets .Crushed the fuck out of approach anxiety today i don't think ill ever see it again when i approach. I may have been rejected 12 or more times tdy ( i can't remember how many i approached tdy lmao i lost count after the 5th).Its worth the try and kill off any AA. I went direct opner on all my approaches and it seems to crush AA, AA was completely gone compliment openers and try to run indirect game but my dumbass keep saying 'i think ur cute whats ur phone number' killing my indirect game so hard and me not being able to carry out the convo with walking sets unless they stop walking and face me. I won't go into detail today since its so much to write lmao. ill just condense everything into 1-3 sentences

#1 set(stationary): tall 175, 13-ish yr old, white , hair in a bun , Australian blue sweater, blue jeans, square glasses, on her watch(A.I) when she slowed down infront of me and stopped. Asked for basic directions as opner and didn't continue the convo( oops ) and left for the 'driections i got'

#2 set( stationary), 160cm olive green top, revealing her shoulders with and her arms( lowkey sexy), jeans asian, lg highlights and resting hair brown hair, black jeans, Oval faced shape revealing her cheekbones. Leaning against a pillar( touching hair and lots of glances) infront of 1st floor myer. I was at the entrance looking around/ posing to see for attractions from her. Hesitated at first but fuck that pussy shit lol and went direct. I winked a couple times at her and i waved at her when i approached after i noticed she had her arms crossed after i dicked around(running out of time).me:'' listen i don't like beating around the bush, i think ur cute', her: *smiles with joy* '' sorryyy i have a boyfriend, but i would date you'', me: '' oh thats cool ', her: '' but keep trying *smiles* me: '' *laugh* i will get 1 once in a blue moon no one 1 in 20'', her : *laughs* and i bid her farewell

#3 set( bookstore venue:stationary), 155cm, tan hoodie, black jeans , resting hair, asian, lowkey cute, noticed her hover near me without making eye contact and no touching hair( i couldn't tell if there was actual attraction) opened her with are you an employee here?, she said she is not and i thanked her either way. She *smiled*. Fuck i should of opened threads.

#4( walking set -> stationary): European, strong facial features: jaw, cheekbone, head?(lol), white top. white jeans. Sexy body, hourglass shape, she had a tempo to her walk.167cm. Saw her walk by and i knew i had to approach after she showed attraction. she hovered at the spot with her phone out i walked past her but i hesitated and kept an eye on her while leaning a rail not so far from her after my AA was holding me back(first walking set of the day) then she started moving again( she gave up after glancing at me and i preponed her wink but didn't made my move) I sped up to catch up to her and her she glanced back, i winked( she caught it ) and slowed to to stop at a rail nearby. I approached with genuine opener with a pre-open on a tab on the elbow.. She *smiled and squinted her eyes* '' thank youuu', me: '' whats you number", her: ''sorryyy i have a bf'', me: ''on a scale of 1-10 how satisfied are u with ur relationship'', her '' 100! *giggles ", Me: '' well then it was nice meeting you'' her: 'byee'
i really need to fix the closing habit of rushing for the number

#5(true walking set): Dressed in all black bottom part is like a sheath dress but the top is loose but fuck she dressed sexy, 180cm, asian, cute asian face, good body, cute face, chinese(probably ABC like me), speaks English . leaning on her right side on the rail looking at her phone to my left. i didn't want just to approach i wanted to see how receptive she was by not facing her directly while leaning my chest on a rail that was further from her but connected the left footpath and the right footpath together sorta like a intersection of a bridge to cross over from a bridge( i was sorta like in the middle). I switched my back onto the rail and i wasn't facing her anymore as started to walk into my field of view she was maintaining eye contact and preening, i made eye contact and winked at her, she sped up and kept looking back, i made sure she caught my wink. When she did she cut to the left then right( while she was in front to shorten some space between me and her while i was trying to catch up) i caught up, pre open with a clasp on her right elbow and opened with you have the most stunning walk i have seen all day. shook hands, Very receptive and she smiled at me and stopped walking to face towards me. introduce each other *hand clasp* , asked nationality turns out she was Chinese i teased her i thought she was international she laughed , asked what she is up to, ofc she is shopping, asked her to join me for starbucks, she refused cuz she is 'busy'( wasn't sure if that was a lie), tried number close(maybe i should of build more rapport), refused cuz she is 'currently talking to someone' but offered her ig/snapchat, declined and i responded with ' i don't give girls my ig who i only met once'. She *giggles, attraction is still there*. She said its 'its nice of you that you came up to me *smiles*. I responded ''yeah girls usually get pissy and pouty if i don't''( lol wtf did i just say). Tried to push for the number with teases ''i know you want to, u really wanted to when u moved ur phone closer to me''. When giggles and laughs but keeps declining but when she crossed her arm i let her go. I should have not closed and went indirect. I could of hid my intent a lot more longer and instead of going direct and showing my cards right there. I felt like i could have leveraged more if i didn't close and build more rapport , slowling get my frame on her then move her then close.

set 6(walking -> stationary): red hoodie, blue jeans, nice ass, nice cute asian face( all cute asian girls faces are feminine xD), relaxed hair black hair followed her as h that ass bounced .saw her walking to my left while i was walking straight and turned arounded and started to tail her. She noticed and i pre-opened with a wink. She hovered to a rail and i opened her with a genuine compliment. She couldn't speak english or understand what i complimented her on but maintaining that eye contact made her attraction go into green light ( lots of touching with her hair). I asked what nationality is she, if she spoke mandarin( im half chinese and i can only speak at conversational level lmao. stereotypical asian parents would have disowned me by now or beat me with a wooden stick xD). She couldn't. fuck it close with a number either way. she shaked her head and while muttering a soft 'no' a bid her farewell and she left. Saw her again when i was infront( second chance) but didn't bother cuz how am i going to interact with her if i can't verbally comunicate with her.

set 7( walking ): holding bags on her right hand, eruopean, short, hair iin a pony tail, blue eyes?/ brown eyes, white top, black jeans, she stopped into a venue and used my non-verbals(?? idk what i did i think i said something come on girl not in there, walk to my left) while i lingered outside the venue pretending to not notice her. She picked up pace and walked to my left and looked back. I winked i didn' think she caught up. and gave her poke at the elbow as pre open. I started her and i said: '' oh sorry did i startle you'', she: '' you did'
her eyes were clearly dilated and said ' i just wanted to say you have the most stunning walk i have seen all day'' , she said' thank you'. She ad her hips facing forward while her torso facing me she was planning to walk after i said that, i picked up on this mid way through of what i said. She dipped lol. I could of continued the convo and walked with her .

set 8(walking): white sweater but showed skin of her arms, blue jeans, walking beside me, 180cm, choppy short bob cut, cute Asian, triangle face shape. she was initially in front of me but i caught up to walk side by side to her. i notcied a lot of attraction present and i pro- open with a soft tap on the elbow, i opened with the same shit * she smiled and her eyes dialtated/twinkled*. i slipped and asked if she was single( at the single part my voice cracked, my god u don't want to hear it XDDDD) and she apologetically said 'nooo * while smiling at me*. i dipped and turned around.... omg wtf did i do xD, i should have introduced each other and run the process but my bum ass slipped.

set 9(walking ): samurai short bun while leaving her long hair resting behind her, 155 cm. dressed in all white, I followed her after i missed an oopertunity as she hovered a bit. i pre-open her with tap on the eblow. I opened but fuck she didn't understand anything xD ( oh no a set 6 again 6). she went liek 'what...' *no eyes dilation* i asked if she spoke mandarin. she does. Said she was cute and i wanted her number. she be like no and left lmao. Bruhhhh what happen to the attraction when u looked back at me and all that

set 10 (stationary) white top, hair in a pony tail, 13, blue jeans, on the rails, i distanced my self to have her in filed of vision while i was on the rails. saw her glancing and i went up and did the usual. Turns out she was 13 and i tried to close on everything. ig,snapchat, discord(xd), gmail. she objected everything she didn't have a phone, forgot her discord, deleted ig and what not. She was with her grandma it turns out she just witnessed this while she was vibing on the floor lmao. I told her remember this experience lol and i left. I knew she liked me but i couldn't get in contact with her. I said i was 14 and what not but it doesn't seem the PUA gods want it to happen lol

set 11( last set stationary): on the rails, green top, black jeans, saw her glancing. Walked up opended direct. I saw u were cute and i wanted to say hi, whats ur number' her eyes dialted then she when 'ew go away'( wtf? happen) . she walked away from me by walking to the left and i just went wtf. ASD? False positive? I think her friends was litterally behind me and she needed to get out of this situatiion lol.

I got tired after doing all these sets, i may have forgot a few more but im too hungry to be writing this lol. Overall it was a good af day even though i got no numbers but they serve as good experience and i notice some different A.I, relying on rails to observe and smoothly hover there, notcied my habbit of closing so quickly and uncessarily. im crushing AA with opening fast and closing on the spot, not good for long term but right now is passable. Im pretty much relying on direct game for AA, i need to switch to indirect game and calibrate properly and smoothly without rushing the process( out of habit). As for hblynx( i asked general forums for some help) hbnasa i rearanged the logistics and set a different date. Prob gonna go cold approach again tdy cya guys soon. im so fucking hungry in the morny lmao its 9:30 and i hvan't ate jack shit
~Nicko

 

[Nicko]

28.12.20
i went on a date with HBnasa and its here. i couldn't be bothered posting it here and left in the infield. TL' DR is at the top on the post so ill just leave it there instead of posting it here.

I should of went out a lot more for girls instead of friends. went out twice and i had 3 days to approach but family cam over on the 25th. ugh! ill approach tmrw anyway this day is enough for me with the date.

 

[Nicko]

29.11.20

1 phone number from stationary set lmao

10+ walking sets . I don't even remember some of their faces or the sets , as im writing this lmao. Gained new good experiences with walking sets. 1. is that some girls are going to be shy and want to eject them selves even if they like you 2.walk with them to contiue the convo if they don't stop automatically when u approach them if they don't stop walking(unless she out rights rejects u first) 3. stop closing so fucking fast me

i figured away to kill my AA, it takes me to fully concentrate and ignore everything going around me( people, other potential sets). Its like when u force ur self to concentrate on something so intensely like ur vision strats to blur out other images except on what ur intentionally looking at. as well u lose other train of thoughts thats not relevant to what ur concentrating on.
Kinda like a predator preparing to pounce and eat the pray in this case to pick of girls of their feet as smooth as possible(lol). The sensation is like a sense of nervousness(good kind) mixed with excitement? idk lol maybe its flow state
set 1(walking set): chinese, 160 cm, asian cute face with dyed faded orange, White bomber jacket of sorts, Gucci? handbag/ some luxury handbag, white sheath shirt dress, nice set of ass . HB: 8.5
Approached: She was leaning against the rail(second floor), 'looking' at her phone. I leaned against the rail aswell but 2 meter apart to gauge her attraction for me. I notcie a couple glances and hair play but i was still hesitant. She looked up at the man in front of her and started walking with him. We all know its her bf i was about to give in and leave but not today im in hot pursuit to be the trainwreker of this relation ship *purple devil smiling emoji face* lol im joking. She glanced back at me and i gave her a couple winks. It seemed she caught on and we met at an intersection while she told her bf go another way and she isolated her self for me and starting walking in mmy opposite direction. Caught up and opened.
convo: *pre opened with winks when closing distance and a light tap on the elbow*
me: *smiles* Hey you have the most stunning walk i have seen all day
her: *smiles* what??
me: do u speak English?
her: uh.. a lilttle bit
*its gonna be that kind of set lmao ah shit here we go*
me: what nationality are you?\
her: uh what.. *giggling*
me: where you from, what country *laughing*
her: Chinese
me: Chinese?? i thought u looked korean
her: *laughs/giggles*
me: are you internaitonak
her: yes, im studying for master class
Long story sort: she is studying master class, joked about asian expectations( i could think of a reality pace for this 1) and closed but she is kinda on the fence of not giving me the number. Kept teasing her she should and she wants to but she keeps saying'
thats not righttt,' She gives me the looks of wanting to but her being emotional torn on her bf. I asked for a hug but she be like sorryyyyy i can't and tapped me on the shoulder lmao

set 2(walking set ): Columbia, 3 strand braids, brunette, the 3 braids on her right shoulder , cute fringe, 175, cute oval soft European face. All black, black sweater and black jeans. works at LV( i might be able to meet her again) HB 8.5
Approach: after leaving set 1 here comes this pretty thang, i intentionally walked pass her and she was receptive. Elegantly pivoted like a fashion model and she was already looking back at me. I winked 2-3 times and she know what is up and stopped infront of me and gave the ' oops im going the way' to my right. I opened
convo: Long story short, shook hands, introduce each other, i talked about, i said something 1st dimensional like 'omg Columbia has a vibrant culture, with lots of colours'. After that i asked where she worked, asked what she was up to. she said she is going back to work. I number closed be she was walking and turned back like 'no no no no' while she was smiling... She was smiling during the interaction. Oh well

set 3(walking set): pink dyed hair with fringe (no sjw dw), Asian, chinese, blue and white shirt? like the belly botton is exposed so is the arms, like the embrodies are like long peices of the shirt are tied to gether on both shoulder creating sort of a bow. black jeans. 165cm, HB: 8.5
Approach She was on her phone on the rails, observed her on the rail. Showed a couple glances and left in 30 sec. I was going to forget her as she went into myer but my god she was fine af so i followed her. Pre open and opened as she saw me walking towards her.
convo: opened with the same old walking stuff, joked her being korean and all the people i said hi to are always chinese. she laughs, asked who was she walking with, it was her mum. Joked it was her sister. cold read her job. got it correct and which was barrista. hit(metaphorical) her with some reality pace of being a barrista gives her the vibes of meeting new people, being open and being enthuastic of people. I went for number close and she was really apologetic and her bf was on call through her airpods. He was listening the whole time lmao. I dipped and said well shit she was cute. I coudn't tel if she was lying about the bf part but it seemed really genuine and she apologized

set 4 (walking set) asian 168cm, all white, white, jeans, white top, brown hair/ faded orange.
approach: she appeared around the corner as i was walking.iface to face. she broke eye contact as soon as i noticed her and preened her hair
convo: me: hey do u speak english
her: yeah
me: do u know where is gucci?
her: points its over there
me: im just joking, i thought u were cute and i wanted to say hi
her" *looks up and starts panicking sorta smiling* uhh, im busy i have to go...
me: wait, whats ur number
he: *already walking*, sorryyy,,,,
set 5( walking to stationary employee) all black, black jeans, black top, black hair, cute diamond Asian face. my type(literally any Asian girl lmao)
approach: i tried to catch up to her but i couldn't aftrer she rushed to the esclalator to the thrid floor for the toilets i tried to tail and open but i just thought about it how fucking weird that would be lol. I forgot about her and remembered i have seen her outside of the jewelry venue squirting hand santiziers lol. I saw her and lingered around the rails to see how much attraction she has for me compared to previously trying to catch up to her. Meanwhile observing her i thought about how should i calibrate and i decided going direct is going to be my only option( she is working+ customers+ social pressure of her peers). i don't know if i winked a couple time to pre open or not lol
convo: * i reopened with a wave and i walked up to her* her response was neutral but the her eyes lit up when i got closer
me: hey listen i want to make it quick, i thought u were cute
her: thank youuuuu. its reallyyy sweeet of youu ( attraction went up)
*introduces each other and shakes hand*
i forgot what we said but: i quickly closed and said i don't usually take it this fast but since ur working i don't want to make it awkward for u. She was verbally appretiative, asked for logistics, she is working up to 10pm, joked about how she must really want that bag(slang for money)

set 6(walking set): cute asian girl with a sweater, black jeans, 163cm, oval/diamond facial structure.
approach: pre opened as soon she looked to glance at me and i caught up to her
convo: same old , stunning walk stuff. introduced, talked about that cute sweater, ask where she got it from, online and joked about how she didn't get scammed for it, asked what she is up to, turns out she is meeting with her bf(fuckkk), asked for number. bf objection tried teasing but still rejected it lmao and bid her farewell.

set 7: white sheath dress Thailand, asian, ridiculous tits c-d cup lmao, luxury end bag hanging on her right shoulder
Approach: caught up to her now she was by my right side walking and winked to pre open multiple times she caught on
convo: screened her out, after i asked if she can speak English, she said no, asked if she speaks mandarin, and no and i just gave up trying to deduce girls that i can't cross the language barrier. A few more sets went like that same scenario so i won't write them lol

set 9ish(stationary employee): Levi cloths shop
blue suspendered yellow, brown hair. hair split, white top, Chinese( i thought was Korean), serving 1 employee and i 'wondered in'
approach: while she was folding the customers clothes and came over to me while i was looking at clothes, and said just some basic stuff about looking at clothes. she re-approached me again after i mentioned about looking at Denim to see how i was doing. broke off that chain of threads and opened up, why she is working at Chadstone, is she korean *lauhgs*, turns out she is chinese, asked for logistics for the day and closed but bf obbjections( bruhhh)

set 10(walking) blue top like, where their are strings at the back leaving her back exposed( pretty sexy lowkey) and the front reveals her belly but covers her tits. Man its so hard to describe and i looked up how many kinds of tops and there is like 20 different types( my god). black jeans/ pants. Asian, 17, Vietnamese,
approach: I was so deadbeat tired, i didn't want to approach anymore until she caught my eye with that blue top, and i just had to approach, she was 2m infront but i kept keeping myh pace and she stopped to look at her watch( clear signs of AI) i avoided approaching at that second until she was walking because there was passing her from the right and it would cut me off. Im pretty sure i gave her a couple winks and she caught it. Either way she started to walk and i tapped her on the shoulder.
convo(we were walking together this time): same old open, shook hands handclasp, we were rubbing shoulders already( good sign i guess), *exchange names* asked what she was up to, guessed her nationality judging from her name, *laughes* tells me what she was up to. turns out she is buying gifts, telling her i know that viets tend to be big spenders with gifts. she loled, she is only buying gifts for friends and she doesn't know what guys want. I told her the truth, guys only want asses. She didn't believe it and asked there must be something else they want i responded well what do they like? she has no clue. i joked her being such a good friend for not knowing what they want. She asked me am i looking for 'ass'(lmao ) i said aloofly with a smirk 'maybe' we stopped infront of Myer. Asked her if she was busy, she is going to shop around and i couldn't be bothered going for a instant date and closed for the number, she told me the truth that she is 17, i take of my mask and said im 15!, she was shocked and replied u look 20 or 21, lol i asked what that meant, she replied that its a good thing and a was 'mature'. Tried to get the number close but objected after she just got out of a relationship tried pushing 'wow ur taking too fast im not trying to be ur bf' she then continued 'why u want my number,, for educational purposes?? *slight hind??*, i teased her '' ohh, wow i seee what u mean now ur a naughty girl'', she *ggigles* i tried getting it but she would only give her snap out i declined phone number or nothing. Kept pushing the tease and just said fuck it and started walking it was nice knowing u, she comes running back to me and asks whats my name and then kepted the ploy: '' no number then no name'' and wouldn't budge and just gon up and lefted that convo where it was and bid her farewell.

 

[Nicko]

30.12.20
follow up on 29.12.20 number, we'll call HbSydney
text msg:
tuesday

ice breaker: this is Nicko, save my number [4:09pm]
[6:39pm]
Wednesday
me:Hey x[spell it right? lol] Hope ur not too stressed out working up to 10pm at Chadstone had a good dat unwinding from the stress from the holiday season by drinking bubble tea and chilling what does ur schedule look like net week for a bite or a drink.
HbSyndey: it's X[correct speeling of her name] HAHAH i'm extreemly flattered you asked for my number. You seem like a very sweet nice guy but I currently have my eyes on someone and not really interested in talking to anyone else, I'm sorry for giving you my number i was just very flusstered at the situation

Yesterdays number : HBredflower & HBTesla
both responded to my ice breakers on the same day
HBredflower

me:hey this is x/[chiense name], it was nice meeting u
HBredflower: hi, x/[chinese name] nice to meet you.

HBtesla

me: Hey Tesla! it was nice meeting yu
HBtesla: haha x is fine
HBtesla: Nice meeting you too

Employee set, blondee, 180 cm she is tall lol, ironed her hair so its curlys in a spiral, diamond face shape i would presume but her mask is blocking it. Anyway approached her she is stuck at the information stop/board? litteraly just there waiting for me to say hi to her after ignored her and went after other sets(walking) i just left here there. After all those failed attemps lmao i decided to atleast end it on a good note by talking to her. We hit it off ,she was instantly attracted, handclasp, introduceded each other, teased her voice being so depressed to the lost sheep's she has to guide. talked about her job, forgot my name instantly and used that to tease , attraction was pretty green light, Some interruptions but we were able to create a bubble it seems like the interaction never stopped teased her with her name reminding me of a tesla, asks her has anyone ever said that name, mentions how her sister's bf messes her with that name and is a dickhead to her so she is also a dickhead to her(lmao this is some 'F.r.i.e.n.d.s' type shit) , talked about what is she up to lately, she is doing master degree, teaching and undergrad music. i said so she is doing a p.e teacher( that was stupid lol) she questions what degree i go with finance(cuz asian lmao) and starting asking what uni(oh fuck....), i play aloof and let her guess, she kept guessing and questioned why i won't say it. She told me she won't judge me( thats not it girl xD) i just kept it quite and directed it the convo to something else. We were pretty close to each other leaning on the little station. after i let that convo slip away and closed for her number and gives it without any hesitancy. Then the convo just died down to just and she was just staring at me(she down to fuck vibes) then she asked what i was doing for New Years eve, i said not much and she 'might invite me for a drink if i tell her my age'. i played it cool and said 'old enough for u' then kept asking like a little girl who have been left out on a secret and wants to desperately know. I checked for logistics before, said she was busy and confirmed it again with her and left after i bid her farewell

i did 3 walking sets, i won't write them down since its not all that interesting and not all that interesting to sum it all up. 1 walking set who was attracted but refused to shake my hand after we introduced each other and started to walk away while smiling, i didn't chase to contiue the convo, 2 refused to give me their number even with attraction present. Must be trust and comfort that im missing in my short interaction( less then 30 second then i close). 1 i fucked up with who was on the fence of giving her number, while she was heading towards the exit of the mall, i said. ''if ur not going to give it say it now'(bad move), i should of said '' if ur going to, give it say it now'' least effort to comply to. After that i lost mommentum mid way through cuz i thought i saw HBlynx with some other dude who has her waist who kept looking back at me . That shit got me tripping and killed my mood. Got it back up by approachign walking sets and re thought about it and it couldn't be her lmao. I swear asian chicks all look the same plus i saw these couple when i walked in when HBlynx was visiting my venue at 1:30pm.

set a date by Sat 2/ January 2 from HBlynx she asked her mum and hasn't replied.

 

[Nicko]

1/2/2021​

2021(prologue)

Age:15

Height: 5’7( 170cm)

Weight: 75kg ( 18% ~20% bf)

Goal: 68.5 kg ( ~13% bf )

Life itself is just one massive wild card from the day you born, till the day you die. You may have been given the underhand but doesn’t mean you can’t reshuffle. It is true that we all know man is not born equal but I personally believe. Yes every man is not born equal but every man can reach his fullest potential.

Success and growth is a byproduct of discipline, to master disciple you first have to master pain then we can achieve our greatest selves and potentials. The interesting part of pain is that it is what fuels us to grow, it’s a trial in itself to see if one’s willpower is strong enough to go through the pain and grow or collapse and break, returning to a weaker self.

We should be grateful of these trials, as for there is no trials we would not have improved or gotten stronger.

This year trials personally for me was interesting: previously in 2020, the start I had a few goals in mind.

• Workout
• Positive mindset
• Make friends
• Seduction
• Pick up break dance

Now Its 2021, its hard to believe how fast the years go without noticing it. Last year I have learned a lot about people in general. From friends, for me I have been a ‘stigma male’ for a long time I guess. I never really ‘joined’ one particular circle I sorta just floated around social circles branching off if I could. I wasn’t afraid of the lonesome ( It got boring fast lol). I tried getting ‘in’ the circles but it seemed like it isn’t worth the effort. You would have to spend most of ur time hanging out with them after school, play games with them and ect. It just wasn’t it for me. I realized that being at arms distance is the sweet spot, not too close, not too far. At a cost of a bit of lonesome and I can accomplish my goals faster.

A interesting experience from my interactions with people is from my natural ‘friend’ ( age: 17-18 viet, criminal background , Fourth generation of his family). He has superficially charmed me into trusting him and manipulated me before I have realized, I was stupid enough to trust him to a certain degree and that he exploited me for money.

He is ridiculously good with social calibration and deception, deduction, setting good impressions, iq of 140(he proclaimed) , manipulation , tailoring him selves to different people and understanding human in general and ect. He fits the description of a psychopath

From my interaction with him he is amazing at making people trust him and lowering their guard for him to influence them and subtly pry you open to find your weak spots, earn your trust and use you for his own benefit. I was naïve in believing him was someone I could trust. I have not revealed any information of myself that can be used to hurt me but he is someone to be ghosted. As a student of human nature he was a good wakeup call and he has the valuable skills sets that I need to learn to survive in the real world. You can no longer trust a person who is Machiavellian.



Now lets move onto this year goals:

• Seduction / social skills
• Work towards the physique you desire
• Study to get ready for VCE in yr 11
• Use and understand social power plays( manipulation, deception, deduction and ect)
• Become the best version of my self

2021 is going to be my year and glow up.. i can feel it already

lets move over to the seduction part.

Cold approach: 1.1.20

News:3 new covid cases and locally transmitted. This month is already a shit show lmao

With HBtesla that was uhh quite wack lmao. Here are the texts. I have called her but ill summarized what were the interaction was. I relied on the general chat and thanks for everyone’s in sights lol.

Me:Hey Tesla J it was nice meeting you

Hbtesla: HaHa x is fine

Hbtesla: nice meeting you too

Me: Say x u mentioned inviting me to a drink… at ur place or… at..

Hbtesla Well if you tell me how old you are maybe. Cos im sensing I’m cradle robbing here. *laughing emoji*

Me: Maybe if u tell me if its at ur place or not

Hbtesla: Nup avoiding my question Haha U know you are just digging yourself a hole

Me:Take a guess how old I am *laughing emoji*

Hbtesla: Some where been 15 and 42

Me:42? *laughing emoji* I turned 18 last week, I started school late lmao so im in y12 next year does it satisfy ur inquiry lol

Hbtesla :*laughing emoji* Knew there was a reason why U were being defensive about your age. I am too old for you. It was nice talking too you and also goon on you for having balls to come up and talk to me. Good luck J

Me:Too old? Whats wrong with that

*I called, assuming she deleted my number and I was correct, to summarize I tried persisting with the hook up but she wouldn’t budge and said ‘I don’t date younger guys’, younger guys objection and I could not persist, I questioned was it fear of social pressure, her sister judging her. I mentioned that its possible and I have done it before. Discreetness and it didn’t budge her personal belief of not dating younger guys and her having a limit(lmao that’s bs ) ASD?*

Me:Hey this is [my name] imam tell u this before I delete this number. U tripping on about being too young for u *laughing emoji* my ex was 25, girl before that was 21 but I I don’t like people who judge people on age and assume random shit about them. Get to know someone first. Then see if there is a vibe or not But if that’s now how u be then that’s cool too. [ Credit goes to @Velasco, though I changed a bit of the words to match my scenario]

Hbtesla: Ah you can’t get away from stages of brain development So I’ma stand my position Anyway nice talking too you.

Me:Brain development excuse me *laughing emoji*

Hbtesla: Ahh young one as you have not been to uni yet I would not expect to understand *rolling laughing emoji*

Me:Ahh old one, for u to restrict ur self to rules u won’t able to enjoy present time *laughing emoji* Its not looking for just empty sex im after good sex that comes with emotions and trust thus ‘vibe’ ( that was a fuck up and no more responses from her )

*she made eye contact with me and I returned it and she instantly turned her head away as she was working at the information board ( literally stuck there ), I just ignored her for the time being*

HBlynx is going to be on the back burner for a while, setting a date is near to impossible because her mum has forced her to block me and refuse to her see me in person. Getting her friends along does not change the story it seems, I could of in the past perhaps when her objection was not as strong but I can’t change the past anymore.

I’ll keep in note of this interactions and key points that is important to set up a date i.e her mums objection and to counter it bring a friend. Through her friend who msged me that her mum blocked me and ect I manage to get HBlynx ig. My profile is private and so is hers and zero mutals. I followed her and she accepted, while sending a request to me to accept but I didn’t lol( chase frame) amusingly she send me a text at 11pm.

Text convo

[Instagram]

Hblynx: YO [ 10:31pm]

4.1.20

Me: oh hi lol miss? [10:19 am]

Hblynx: Hehe I guess [12:37pm]

Hblynx : HOW ARE YOUU [12:37 pm]

Me: im out right now ill call u soon on ig to catch up a bit [1:08pm]

*she likes that msg*

Hblynx: Lol okayyyy [4:11pm]

Me: Sorry im too tired we’ll call tmrw 9:30 am

Hblynx: Lmao I’ll try to be up by then

The next day 4.1.20

Me: Ur a sleepy head lol call me by 8:10pm [6:30pm]

Hbylnx: PH MY GOD I AM SO SORRY I MUST BE ANNOYING YOU BY NOW. OKAY SO LIKE I WOKE UP AT LIKE 11:02AM RIGHT THEN I DIDN"T REALISE I WAS LATE I ACCIDENTLY PUT MY ALARM AT 9:30 PM INSTEAD OF THE AM IM SO SORRY IM SUCH A MESS ANYWAY I WENT TO GO TO THE TOILET AND PEOPLE WERE ALREADY THERE SO MY MYM TOLD ME TO GO HANG OUT WITH THEM AND YEAH WHERE IBE BEEN THEYRE JUST HEADING HOME NOW THANKS FICK [10:01 pm]

me: Im so lost... imma sleep lmao we'll call again tmrw at 10am [10:19am]

Hbylnx: OKAY OKAY ILL PROMIS ILL BE THERE [10:32 am]

Side note: I planned to call her to build more investment, and trying to tackle the issue of her mum not taking her out by igniting the rebel inside her fabricated in my reality pacing, increasing my possibility.

I can at least communicate to her directly now with peace. My plan with her is to get out on a date ‘with her friends’ and we secretly meet up having her rebel against her mum. Sounds like a terrible Disney movie lmao. The problems would be coordinating with her friends and if they snitch its over 100%. Her siblings would probably be more trustworthy.


Venue: Chadstone was rather lonely it didn’t have the sound of constant chatter and swaps of people walking around. It was rather dead, there was a few single sets here and there but there was mainly couple sets wandering around. It must be the lazy new year vibes has gotten to them but not me lol. I couldn’t approach as much as I wanted, all the single sets that were there are meeting their ‘bf’ laws of average

*note as im writing this i’ll only summaries the remotely interesting interactions that I had with a girls that I manage to remember, as my memory is of cold approaching is already replaced with 2.1.2021 approach*

Fit: all blue jersy jacket with red and white outlines on the collar, wrist and the bottom trims of the jacket, black striped tee, same pants, same shoes .

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Set 1( tricky family set):

As I walk over the 1st floor of the most shoe oriented strip, up ahead of this strip is the food strips. Listening to my youtube(lol ) rnb mix to get me in the right groove. I was kicked outside my zone until I saw HBtesla at the information board with someone else. She looked a bit different then I recognized , having her club master( half lens) glasses on while tying her her blonde bomb shell bob cut into much of smurai pony tail and leaving her to fringes on both side dangle infront . I know she did she recognized me by the way she locked onto my eyes as I walk pass her I said something

‘I must tripping that can’t be her’ ( I wasn’t tripping xD)

I wasn’t sure if I could feel her glances when I wasn’t looking at her ill leave her attraction for me ambiguous after wtf has happened between me and her lol. I might reconsider approaching her for shits and giggles but I don’t think risking it is worth it getting black mailed at this mall.

I wondered around on that strip until I saw my set. A group set, family dynamic, 2 girls , 1 mother, 1 father. I have made up on my mind approaching the girl who was more attractive to me. I walked back and forth to measure the attraction for the girl I had in mind of approaching and calculating how should I approach.

Lets talk about the dynamic for a second. We’ll call the girls ‘A’ and ‘B’. I picked up on that ‘A’ is mostly the older the one and ‘B’ is the younger one, judging from her vibe and body position. ‘B’ is closer to the family where ever they go and ‘A’ sorta just just lingers at the back and follows with her arms crossed(interesting). She is more distance and uninterested at the venues they go to. My deductions tells me she has been dragged along on this trip to Chadstone and wasn’t interested but she was forced to.

What struck my attention… was her overall body language then…. I noticed her vibriant highlighted hair.... from the back. It was yellow… her top was a light…blue sports bra… and a darken blue jeans… her eyes lit up as I walk pass.. eye lashes curls, asian.. .with oval to circular facial structure… it was guaranteed… she was going to be cute…a cute heart neckless…upon closer inspection.

I walked passed her a few times and I wanted to approach after she caught on my winks and her ioi was very much present…. She has isolated herself for me on the seats outside the shoe venue after I muttered something about:

‘ Fuck.. her mum is there’

Guaranteed she caught on and did so, she shooed away her parents as they come back to check on her and probably question why she isn’t following them into the shoe venue after the she is isolated completely without interruptions and I approached. She became a sitting set but iois is present so it should be a breeze. Sure she was on her phone but that’s just a mere cover up as I pretend to be on my phone and smoothy… sit on the seat next to her. I slowly veered my head… towards her and opened

Interaction:

me: ‘’hey do you know where is vans?’’

Her eyes was already dilated, large as the moon, brown hazzle eyes… ready to ignite my passion for seduction. Her arms were still crossed.. I have to find out a way to… to lower her guard but her legs was crossed in my directions so.. it isn’t about me.

Her: ‘’oh yeah its just over there’’ * she points*

Me: ‘’im just joking, I thought u were cute and I wanted to say hi’’

She awed in surprise and excitement… she couldn’t help herself and…shook her body left and right moving.. her legs and torso while to making herself more comfortable.. Locking heads with me… She was interested. The high pitch sounds.. of her voice reminds me of... a flattered voice… of a cute high school girl and prom that.. has been asked out… by the man of her dreams( we all have heard that cute high pitch sound). Warms my soul.. She smiles… her eyes glitter like stars reflecting from the light of the.. venue…

‘’awwww, thank youuuuuu’’ *smiles*

I got the ball rolling and talked what she brought herself to Chadstone…. Cold read her she didn’t want to come… joked about how I could imagine she would rather be at home… chilling and relaxing instead of being dragged out to here… *she laughs*… i asked if I could see her necklace for compliance… *She did*… I complimented it. Her iois exploded …. With a charming girlish tone.

‘’ thannnnkkkkkk youuuuuu’

However… Her parents are back (wildcard) and she responded with a sad

‘oh my parents are here…’

I had to close there. I asked if she would like to meet, maybe was the response and pushed and she said next time… she stood up to follow them then I called her name back over while tapping my ear…. Since I couldn’t.. hear properly... she said maybe next time… I playfully push her shoulder while smiling..

‘what do you mean next time?’

She responded warmly with a smile and playfully pushed my shoulder and said

‘next.. .time’

I bid her farewell and left with amusement.

Fuck up: I should of persisted still at the end. Welp lesson learned and her parents showed up at the worst timing however it was on a high note I closed… if her parents wasn’t there I would have smoothly gotten her number. *Tsk* wildcards can’t be helped it should have been expected


Set ?(couple set):

Strolling by with my swagger while looking for approachable sets that are single and ready to mingle.

I have noticed her from the corner of my eye from her hair and noticing her brisk ioi of flicking her hair towards me and a quick glance as I sexily(lol) walk pass her as she was sitting down with her bf. The bf… had the Asian guy, square glasses, light blue polo shirt, tan khakis look pretty much the typical AFJ Asian guy look.

I thought about approaching as I leaned pass onto a rail while they decided to walk away in front of me but I couldn’t let the opportunity slide as she kept glancing back at me….

She was built rather seducing…. and I couldn’t help myself. She had a hair clip on the right and, it kept her highlighted hair in place to dangle lavishly and the rest of her hair was black, hair length was about up to up to her lower traps/lower back. It was a piece of highlighted hair that was colored… green…, It was certainly …..eye catching and an odd choice of arrange of colors. Like an odd spot of color in a bland world but….. you learn to appreciate its uniqueness.

Her figure was a tall hour glass shape, 180cm tall, covered that slick back and that …..juicy plums with a ……blue floral sheath dress, her face was oval as a peach, her hazel brown eyes would invoke any …..Seducers lust for her and her body. Her eyelashes were curled as her nails was done in feminine pink to show that she is different to your conservative Asian girl(lol).

I walk towards them to tail them, I have winked multiple times and her and she caught on( more iois) and I decided to jump at any opportunity if they manage to be separated. While tailing them I saw something amusing happen….

… the AFJ asian guy tried to wrap… is hands around the girls back like a child wanting to hold his parents shoulder to show some form of affection, She looks back at him with annoyance, he then rubs her hand in a soothing way on her back …..as he checks for her approval, no surprise she dismisses him and he stops. He gives off the plead of a ….child look in his eyes he faces her*what have I done wrong mum* as he talks to her or something. She probably mentioned something about

‘no- sex policy’. Judging from her reactions to his advances lol.

My opportunity arrived:

I slinked back while watching these couple sort each other issues. She wanted to go the clothing store (she may have hinted me towards as she kept glancing at me, approach invitation), while her bf wanted her to go the neighbor store. He was tugging her to go but she resisted and went directly into the store she wanted to. How did he manage to become her bf lmao, he must be the best provider she have ever seen xD.

The clothing store was rather small. A straight carpet through and your in this little world of high fashion. I slowly walked around this venue to check for other sets and glanced back to see if ur bf would peer through the window. I checked my surroundings and it was a clear shot. I opened situational opener. I picked up a black floral dress and asked ‘would this fit me with a slight smirk’, As she giggles and laughs followed up with a

Interaction:

‘just joking I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi’

She giggles as her eyes lit up like a Christmas tree, introduced each other and handclasp, she returned it. I asked basic thread question: ‘’what are you up to’’, ‘’ let me see ur necklance/ earrings’’, ‘’what brings you here’’, ‘’what are ur plans’’.

Then I mentioned about the AFJ boyfriend part about his attempts ( bad move). Her face turned left towards the clothing rack and her eye brows raises ( not a positive sign but turn able). I was left with no choice but to close after that as I had the feeling that I made it awkward and she wants to get out, I closed I was given the the boyfriend objection but…

I teased about her relationships with ‘ how satisfied are you with ur relationship on a scale 1-10) she kept saying ‘idk’ in a giggly way while revealing iois for me. I tried pushing but it wouldn’t budge unfortunately I had to let her go as it was starting to maker her uncomfortable as she said

‘I gotta go now, my bf is waiting for me’

I lacked dominance in overcoming that objection, It was clear she was open for me but I didn’t do it right. We head out for the same exit a joked about her going to make it awkward so she goes left and I go right. She turns around a 180 and laughs, it looked like she was gonna fall, revealing more iois and we never saw each other again.

Fuck up: that was awkward of me to mention the AFJ part, boyfriend objection seemed passable but I lacked dominance it seems.

I also approached my first group set ( 3 girls), I wouldn’t go in much detail but to put it simply I approached them while they were stationary. 3 showed iois while they were pointing at shops. I walked over and opened them ‘ I know this is random but it looks like u guys needed directions’ and the most interested one shut me off with ‘no we are fine’. Could of gone direct and capitalized the iois they were giving me but I got over some of the AA with group sets, that’s the real goal.