- Jul 6, 2014
BackgroundThis is the write-up on yesterday's outing.
White racer jacket, gray jeans, rings and bracelets.
Me: I just realized something...You look almost exactly like my ex....except you have a different energy behind your eyes...
Me: I want to say you're probably like...a little bit more spontaneous...sometimes you have these times where you're a little spontaneous but most of the time you like to follow a schedule. Do you know what I mean?
Her: Yea I guess it depends.
Me; it depends—
Her: —yea, have a good day
Girl 2: Korean girl, didn't talk much, but she walked really close to me, almost bumping into me at times. But it felt like I was talking to a brick wall. I started with my mini adventure rpo, but when I asked her if it felt like an adventure she said "no", so I went into the juice of it and then transitioned to "it's interesting how the people of different cities express their creative sides in different ways" but she didn't say much to that. I asked her if she used to live somewhere else before and she said Korea, and then I asked her what they did to make their cities look beautiful there, but she said "I gotta go, this is my house" (points to the apartment up ahead after the crosswalk)
Girl 3: Opened this Mexican girl and she spoke no english, but she stopped to open up google translate, and we chatted for a while through that. I again used the mini-adventure RPO. It was still hard to communicate but eventually, I found out that she likes acting and theatre, so I just typed into my google translate how I enjoy acting too because it lets you feel free and you can express yourself. She lit up when she read that and agreed. Unfortunately...I learned 10 min into the 'convo' that she was still in high school, so a few min later, I made some excuse that I had to catch a bus and dipped out.
What I did well:
- Did 3 approaches (but at the cost of staying out a bit later). But I think I found a spot that has a high concentration of lone wolves so I'll see how it goes now.
What I could've done better:
- Could've worked on more sexual eye contact with the first two girls.
- My rainbow ruse on girl 1 didn't make any sense. I told her maybe she's more spontaneous and then proceeded to make that the smaller part of the ruse. But ah well, more important is the sexual eye contact. I was speaking fast with her as well. But it's not a big deal b/c it was my first time trying the new opener. I do wonder how to follow up with this kind of opener though. Maybe I could just ask her what she's doing and then hit her with the mini-adventure rpo and we're off to the races.